That is sweet of you, KayEIJay, for wanting to do something to remember Eric on his birthday. Random acts of kindness is certainly a good idea. Also wearing his favorite color, which has been black for as long as I can remember. I thought of having people post a photo of themselves wearing a cap or hat since he usually wore one. I also thought of having people post a picture of themselves with a jar of dill pickles or eating a dill pickle. This is because Eric has loved dill pickles since he was a kid. I have a picture of him when he was a teen standing with the refrigerator door open, holding a jar of dill pickles ! I have shared that on his page before . His dad and I gave him a gallon jar of dill pickles with a bow on top for his birthday one year ! I know most memory pages are of candles, but I really liked the "Rock one Sock" because I saw so many smiles at Missing in Michigan over those socks and also on Facebook with pictures. So, the pickle idea seemed both in his memory as something he loved and as a fun thing to celebrate his life. His sister and I had talked about it and how he would think it was funny. So, whatever you choose to do is okay with me. Thanks again !