First of all, the term "rape worthy" reflects your thinking, not mine.
Second, when has anyone ever suggested that Sherrill might have had a stalker? Nearly everyone has stated that if a stalker was involved, Suzie was probably the intended victim. That isn't "judging" Sherrill, it's simply playing the percentages; I for one have never heard of a middle-aged woman having a stalker. It's simply a fact that a woman Suzie's age is far more likely to have a stalker than a woman Sherrill's age. That's based on observing other stalking cases play out in the media and doesn't have anything whatsoever to do with "judging" Sherrill.
Many people have postulated that Sherrill was the intended victim for one reason: because she was the only one who was supposed to be home. No one who subscribes to that theory thinks it was a stalking case because, again, middle-aged women are seldom stalked by strangers. And, again, that has nothing to do with "judging" Sherrill and everything to do with looking for parallels to other cases.
Because Sherrill would have been such an unlikely stalking victim, people have looked for other possible reasons why Sherrill might have been targeted, hence the possibility that she was somehow involved in organized crime (a theory reinforced by LE's comments about her "poor choices").
