i just want to make a few comments about my dad's death- since this thread was originally started because someone saw he was being exhumed after 16 years. During the last year of his life, he was vomiting, and had lots of other stomache problems. He was diagnosed with late onset food allergies. He continued with the problem after diagnosis to the point he was having a hard time working. Their brand new car was repossessed 2 weeks before he died, and the repo people were calling on the other one during his funeral. There was a 3 day evict notice for non-payment on the house they were renting. They were traveling to Missouri on a family emergency, and had to borrow gas money from my uncle to even make the trip. They had put life insurance on the new car, and increased insurance on my dad. When he went missing, she was the only person in the house to not go out looking for his body. they got the first car back paid off in full, and she said that if he had died even one day later that it would've been too late for the car. She never cried.. the man who she was married to for 25 years just died.. even my grandpa- a very tough man was reduced to tears. Anyway, just a couple of reasons my dad's death haunts me.. there are more.. but he was only 47. I just want the truth.