It is true what you said that this is not a courtroom, however engaging in character assassination isn't exactly right, especially if this guy is innocent and trying to maintain custody of his kids. Sure we can have opinions and speculate guilt, involvement, or innocence, but its when people start to claim guilt as a "fact" that I take issue (the difference between statements like "based on what I read I 'think' he had something to do with it", and "he saw her last, so he 'must' be guilty"). Its the lynch mob mentality that is becoming dangerous. There are people right now who have been exonerated of a crime, yet still under public threat. That is not right. Also, if this is to be a "sleuth" forum, then don't we have to explore all aspects of an investigation, and not just an assumption of guilt based on hearsay and a statistic? One last thing, <modsnip>. I did not say men don't make women disposable. I said that statement is one sided, and that women also engage in the abuse and disposal of men, just in different ways.