Bizarre, this case is just really bizarre. I am seeing this from several sides. This woman, Lois, most definitely has an agenda, and I can't understand why she insists on inserting herself and her 13-granddaughter into this case over and over: the vigils, the e-mails, the memorial service and now the crosses. And by intentionally erecting crosses that she knows disturb the Anthonys, who have to pass there, she is contributing to their psychic pain and distress, and to me that is morally reprehensible. Yes, memorials are to honor the dead, but we should also take into consideration the feelings of all of the survivors. Whether we like them or not personally, they are human beings with feelings.
But the Anthonys, what a hot mess these folks are. If they'd just own their own, say, "Yeah we tore 'em down; they upset us to see them so close to home, and we took them down." I for one would understand. These people know pain intimately in ways that I hope none of us ever has to know. Why cause more, just because you can? How does it help Caylee's memory to upset her grandparents? Would Caylee want that? She loved these imperfect people. But the Anthonys seem never able to get it right regarding their actions or reactions. Now they're caught in another "mis-truth:" Crosses? What crosses? We don't have any stinkin' crosses! Uh, yeah ya do. Pop that trunk! If it were me and I were upset by the crosses, I would try to work within the system to get them removed. Maybe litter laws, trespassing, some city code violated. Have BC send a letter to the property owner with a request. Anything but skulk around in the night with their buddies tearing them down. They just use really, really poor judgment all of the time. I bet BC is apoplectic, no matter what he says to the press.
*****OK, I just read the post indicating that they don't actually have to pass there, and to me that changes things a bit. I truly thought this was a road they traveled in their daily routines. It seems like the As went out of their way to get provoked. I still don't agree with Lois et al for erecting them over and over, but all they had to do was ignore what upsets them. At every juncture they are escalating things. They need to ignore people who are trying to provoke a reaction and not sink to that level, in my most humble opinion!