What does that have to do with it????
So, should the parent with the nicer house and nicer car get custody?? No questions asked??'
I'm not following why the house and cars have anything at all to do with this case.
Drug heads, child pimps, YES - That's what did this.
Trying to send you a hug and can't find the hug smiley and if I look too long I will be three pages behind. Please stop beating yourself up - all of this is moving extremely fast and emotions are running very high. Hugs -still can't find the huggy smiley - this situation is emotionally draining.
and it is not a sin to be poor, but it is a sin to be filthy as this place was!
Sewer could of been fixed! With that many men in and out......could of helped, but nope women decided to just raise 3 kids in filth!
No baths for 'anyone'? how about preparing food? ecoli bacteria?
washing clothes? bedding? SMELL......think about it..................sick!
The feces was reported on quite early into this case. How did they know it was feces? As opposed to mud, dirt, etc.?
The feces was reported on quite early into this case. How did they know it was feces? As opposed to mud, dirt, etc.?
I have said all along, I have questions about this father too.
But I think way too much time and attention has been spent blaming him. IMO
I don't think he had any idea of 1/2 the things that we know now.
I'm sure he is 2nd quessing everything he did.
IMO - it would be better to focus on the facts that we know now.
So far, the only facts I know are that the fricken mother killed her along with her dredlocked headed drug head friend.
Well presumably there was not 2 crack ho's, an HIV positive felon, and a
felon pimp/dealer all squeezed into the dad's home (along with 3 little kids)
not to mention the users/druggies and johns and perverts who came running to party with AD and MAM etc
and NO one bothered to check it out before they sent Shaynia there
apparently no one checked on her...not even after the breeder told the aunt that she would not "see her" again after the 2 nights were up
just think...IF the dad and his family had put out this info or tried to get her back the hotel clerk might have called this in while they were checkin in and the cops could have saved her
or at any point before then she could have been saved...they could have gotten cops, a private detective...social workers..call the drug squad...whatever it took
that is what upsets some of us
How do we know that???
Is there a link. Some copy of a certified letter I don't know about.
Or, is this, like everything else spectulation.
Well, we still have 2 perps in jail. They should be the focus right now. Why did AD tell LE that Coe was the one?...(snipped)...
...(snipped)...Also, it's been reported that the feces was on the outside handle of the door.
Why wasn't there any on the inside handle?
The feces was reported on quite early into this case. How did they know it was feces? As opposed to mud, dirt, etc.?
Do you want the truth?? The more you post this sort of thing the more you get posts about the dad...
No one..not even me..claims he "had any idea of 1/2 the things we know now"
my problem with him is that he didn't make it his business to know this stuff before he entrusted his precious daughter to these people sight unseen
the fact is that she was delivered to them like a lamb to the slaughter
he worked out of state for weeks at a time - his family helped care for his kids
I don't see anything wrong or abnormal with that
however, that combined with some other factors that we don't know about yet may change my mind
the thing that bothers me most is that all these people are coming out of the woodwork now to publicly lay blame at his feet when they should all (as a family unit) just grieve their loss privately & stop causing more rifts during such an emotional time
the formal complaints (if there are indeed any valid ones) can be made to be police/investigators privately but then they wouldn't get their tv spot either
TOTALLY all just my opinion on who the woman is that created that incident report. The poster stated it was his sister's home...which is also possible, but she's 49 nd he's 29....it *could* also be his mother.
Or honestly for all I know for sure, it could just be a coincidence with the same last name? Sorry I'm not much help!
In a post way back they posted the search warrant of his car and found a portable GPS device in it.
Making note to myself that the next time I convey to a parent a safety concern about their children, I do so in the form of a certified letter or a similar traceable means.
he worked out of state for weeks at a time - his family helped care for his kids
I don't see anything wrong or abnormal with that
however, that combined with some other factors that we don't know about yet may change my mind
the thing that bothers me most is that all these people are coming out of the woodwork now to publicly lay blame at his feet when they should all (as a family unit) just grieve their loss privately & stop causing more rifts during such an emotional time
the formal complaints (if there are indeed any valid ones) can be made to be police/investigators privately but then they wouldn't get their tv spot either
I agree. There are countless good, decent parents who struggle to provide shelter and food for their families, and most raise good children. I don't think anyone here would dispute that.Here I will interject my opinion: Good parenting has absolutely nothing to do with the value of one's home or the location/condition of one's home.