SassynOz
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Actually this was just the perfect storm IMO. I don’t feel that mom had anything to do with it. Her behavior might of been more questionable to me if I couldn’t relate so much to the family situation. The moms behavior is much more lax with the children then for example my own would be. However my own daughter is the same way. She isn’t as watchful over her kids my daughter is many years older wasn’t a teen mom. But she made bad choices doesn’t have custody of her kids. We have the youngest and I think due to the fact that she never HAD to be responsible etc . She just doesn’t have the understanding to now even though her kids are 4 and 7 that she can’t just let them do certain things. She doesn’t have her guard up so to speak . She’s never been on her own from the beginning to understand what kids can do and how much we/ she has a parent has to protect them. It’s really not so much her fault she’s just not used to being fully on guard and responsible that she’s really not responsible to a degree thAt we can’t even try to explain. She also would be exactly one to worry about what people are thinking of HER and wanting to vilify herself. Therefore she also comes across the exact same way as I’m seeing this mother portrayed. I mean honestly it’s not really portrayed that way maybe she is that way. My own daughter I sadly admit is. However in this situation maybe she was not as responsible as most would be. But I don’t think for one second she has anything to do with it. Jmo moo etc.