I'm so glad to see Omaree's case being discussed here. I live in Albuquerque and have followed his case since the day he was killed. I feel terrible about his death, as any normal person would, but the case also holds my interest because I drive past the house they lived in every day, taking my children to and from their school, which is just two blocks away from where the family was living at the time. His house is on the main street and I go about a block past it for my turn-off to the school.
Someone upthread mentioned the neatness of the home, when the police went in with the lapel cam after Omaree called 911. I remember watching the video on the news in the wake of his death and it definitely did look like a neat house. I can tell you that the outside of the house is quite neat too, and stayed so even after the family left the house. I believe they were renting it. After Omaree died, there was a for-sale sign out front for months. I can only imagine that the owner of the house wanted to be rid of it. It's occupied now, by someone who obviously has kids. I look at the house every time I pass it. This past week, I saw children's bicycles in the front yard. It looks a bit shabbier than it did when Omaree lived there, but not much. It looks pretty normal for this area.
My older child, a boy, is about 18 months younger than Omaree. This past summer, my son had surgery on his kidneys and stayed in the hospital for several days, with a lot more recovery at home after that. He was virtually helpless and in a lot of pain. Knowing that Omaree suffered so much, at the hands of his own family, is really horrifying to me. Seeing my own child of the same age in pain, for a necessary reason, really drove it home.
It makes me sad too to think about the fact that Omaree lived and died so close to where my kids go to a truly wonderful alternative public school, which is out of our district but we chose it because the program is very good. Omaree did not attend our school; I think he attended the neighborhood school a couple of blocks in the other direction. We often take our kids to a small park right across the street from the school to play after school hours. I wonder if Omaree was ever taken to this park. I've wondered whether I may have ever seen him there but I can't remember. I hope he had a chance to play and have fun but I feel doubtful given what we know.
Sorry for writing such a rambling post. I just feel very connected to this child, almost haunted. It just feels so unbelievable that I drive past this house every day and he was in there. It really proves that you have no idea what goes on in someone else's home, behind closed doors. Unfortunately, it's probably happening in a lot of homes and I wish that weren't the case. I'm praying for justice for Omaree.