Who is KF? Am I understanding that you are posting what she tells you to post here?
I'm not the only one. It's been being done for quite a while now, and nobody said anything about it being against the rules!! I figured that is was okay, or something would have been said by now. So yeah, I'm not doing anything that wasn't done previously......
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krey,
If its been done previously it shouldn't have been. Mods don't get to read every single post and case. If its not alerted, we probably won't see it.
If your friend wants to join Websleuths, she's more than welcome here, however psychic discussion is not allowed and if you all want to discuss the case it has to be with what is known at this time thru main stream media and law enforcement. You can speculate with the facts as we know them.
Hope that clarifies things a little bit anyhow.
Ima
krey,
If its been done previously it shouldn't have been. Mods don't get to read every single post and case. If its not alerted, we probably won't see it.
If your friend wants to join Websleuths, she's more than welcome here, however psychic discussion is not allowed and if you all want to discuss the case it has to be with what is known at this time thru main stream media and law enforcement. You can speculate with the facts as we know them.
Hope that clarifies things a little bit anyhow.
Ima
Ima ~ if JR's friends and family members are contacting me, can I post what they're reporting to me? Earlier I was told by another mod that I could, as long as it was paraphrasing. I would only do so with their permission, of course. Just want to clarify...because a lot of seemingly important information is now coming out, after over a month of deafening silence...
One more thought I've had....
As someone who is insecure about myself and my weight, I can see how JR's weight might have (this is just a guess) caused problems between her and GR... on her end, mostly. Can you imagine how she must have felt about herself, being married to someone who is in top shape, and whose life revolves around being fit and running marathons? And they would be constantly surrounded by other fit people in the marathon world. We women are insecure as it is... add to this a weight problem (again, not judging, because I struggle with it too), and always feeling bigger and slumpier than everyone else around you. How could you not get depressed?? How could you trust that your husband really wanted to be with you, no matter how many times he said he loves you regardless?
Maybe she's having like a mid-life crisis type of thing. After feeling poorly about herself, she starts losing weight, and at the same time starts talking to some other guy, and all of a sudden she starts wanting freedom from the "old" her and everything that goes with it, and wants to run off and be a "new" her.
Maybe?
BBM ... My ex-boyfriend was a cyclist. Whenever we went to the store, he would read off the fiber content of everything before putting it in the cart. He weighed his food. He worked out hard on his elliptical every day. He noticed when anyone looked slightly heavier or thinner.
It had a significant impact on me. My weight has always gone way up and way down. It was down when he and I met, but being around him for three years took a toll. I started to eat. And eat. And eat. Our food and body-image issues were incompatible and -- even though he never scrutinized me -- his self-scrutiny and scrutiny of others really pushed my buttons. I internalized my feelings of insecurity and piled on the pounds. Our last year together was misery.
While I personally don't believe JR ran away, I do feel (based on her husband's words and behaviors) that she was under a lot of pressure in their relationship. She may have wanted out, and her attempt to take control of her life may have been more than her husband's fragile ego could take.
My opinion only. I hope I'm wrong.
Of course, maybe she did erase some stuff? We don't know what was found on the phone. As for throwing away something so expensive, that would be hard for me to do, as well!! But if she's one-track-minded about getting away undetected, she wouldn't care about the phone. If she doesn't care about her kids, she's not gonna care about a phone! JMO
Also, maybe she's not tech-savy enough to erase everything entirely. My mom has an iphone and would have no clue about, well, anything lol.
Jillian and krey,
Have the friend that is having trouble with registering to send an email to Chico at wbsleuth@xmission.com she can help her/them.
I also checked with Admin about posting what someone is telling you that is not a member here and I'm sorry but its not allowed. That is similar to posting something as fact without a link from main stream media and or law enforcement.
If you have any other questions you can pm me or any Mod here, we are happy to help.
Ima
If we had more to go on in terms of what game she was so invested in, or the screenname of the person she was talking to so much, or any clues at all about her online activity, we might be able to find something. Or if we had HER gaming screenname, that would be very helpful.
<<hint hint>>
Are any of Jennifer's family, friends, neighbors concerned that Jennifer may have been abducted and murdered? Just thinking about Whitney Heichel.
Dad seems to be an intelligent, educated, career-minded, well-spoken (from quotes I've read) father which is why in this case his use of this psychic is, IMO, bizarre, deliberate and frankly appears ridiculous.
I agree... This choice of turning primarily to a psychic for help in finding his wife is seemingly incongruous with his apparent level of education and intelligence..
I am NOT bashing psychics.... But as a primary form of investigation they are limited...
ETA... Had she been a psychologist... She would have crossed the line of "Conflict of Interest" (among others) long ago in their relationship...
JMO
That is a very good question...
If that were a viable option in the family's eyes... Would they be approaching this situation differently than they are now?
would we be witnessing a greater urgency in finding her?
:dunno: