ElizaAvalon
FBI Agent in the next life
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Welcome Deepinthought. We're on the same page.
Hi to everyone. I have been following this case from the beginning as one of the "guests" that have just been lurking, reading. I have also been following the insanity on the fb page. I had typed up a very very long post the other day and then the "news" broke about the phone and wallet. I had always leaned towards NCNYs post being truth that he had been by home that afternoon. I think that the scrap yard is insignificant. He probably went regularly and if anything that company is a victim of a crime in terms of slander. On July 2 someone had posted a response on a post on IMs personal fb page stating "I thought the phone was found turned off for the weekend" That made me start to think that he wasn't a texter, wasn't a phone chatter and maybe did shut his phone off every Friday afternoon when he got home for the weekend. If that's the case it makes sense why it was found off at home, probably in the same drawer in the garage that he always kept it. I also believe that he left his wallet there when he came home that afternoon and that it wasn't forgotten in the morning. In terms of the bike I believe that it may have nothing to do with this and very well may have been missing prior to his disappearance. When this first started I found myself looking for RM everywhere I would go. Then over time I started to feel that he left on his own and wasn't going to be anywhere local. As time progressed though the inconsistencies started to seem much more shady to me. Like why did the phone call initially end with "goodbye I love you" and then turn to a dropped call. If he was really planning on leaving why would he show up home at a time that she was normally there? Why wasn't she there that one day if she is usually home at that time every day?? Were her phone records checked? Or just his? Did she receive a phone call before or during that time period? Or a text? He's home or he's gone. When I went over this whole thing with my friend the other day she had the same reaction.. He either left on his own.. Or maybe "someone" had something to do with his disappearance. I'm not sure if I can explain theories here that may include a "victim" as a suspect. I have a lot more thoughts but ill start there![]()
This guy looks like a family man who would not leave on his own. However, I wonder if Ida's phone records and credit card charges (not Rob's) were scoured over. What kind of work does Ida do? Who does she communicate with? Even if she is not involved, someone close to her might be. She does not really answer alot of questions and has her protectors on FaceBook fending off questions. She desires support and avoids questions. I found some of her behavior to be strange after the fact, particularly right after the news reports. Ida needs to speak up and throw some possibilities out there because that is what I would be doing. I would answer every question, devulge every secret, do anythinjg to find my husband. Perhaps she feels that if she leads the poloce to what happened, that she will be implicated.
So do u think he killed himself?
Sad if that's what he did?
Over what a trip to Italy? Id hope not!
Hi to everyone. I have been following this case from the beginning as one of the "guests" that have just been lurking, reading. I have also been following the insanity on the fb page. I had typed up a very very long post the other day and then the "news" broke about the phone and wallet. I had always leaned towards NCNYs post being truth that he had been by home that afternoon. I think that the scrap yard is insignificant. He probably went regularly and if anything that company is a victim of a crime in terms of slander. On July 2 someone had posted a response on a post on IMs personal fb page stating "I thought the phone was found turned off for the weekend" That made me start to think that he wasn't a texter, wasn't a phone chatter and maybe did shut his phone off every Friday afternoon when he got home for the weekend. If that's the case it makes sense why it was found off at home, probably in the same drawer in the garage that he always kept it. I also believe that he left his wallet there when he came home that afternoon and that it wasn't forgotten in the morning. In terms of the bike I believe that it may have nothing to do with this and very well may have been missing prior to his disappearance. When this first started I found myself looking for RM everywhere I would go. Then over time I started to feel that he left on his own and wasn't going to be anywhere local. As time progressed though the inconsistencies started to seem much more shady to me. Like why did the phone call initially end with "goodbye I love you" and then turn to a dropped call. If he was really planning on leaving why would he show up home at a time that she was normally there? Why wasn't she there that one day if she is usually home at that time every day?? Were her phone records checked? Or just his? Did she receive a phone call before or during that time period? Or a text? He's home or he's gone. When I went over this whole thing with my friend the other day she had the same reaction.. He either left on his own.. Or maybe "someone" had something to do with his disappearance. I'm not sure if I can explain theories here that may include a "victim" as a suspect. I have a lot more thoughts but ill start there![]()
FACT: no body - no crime.
FACT: LE ALWAYS looks at the spouse....FIRST - MIDDLE and LAST.
but...<modsnip>
she wasn't <modsnip> HOME
for those precious 10 minutes.
neighbors camera had Top of Red Car or Side of Red Car - but only a partial Red Car. We can assume it was his car...or.....it could be a friend of hers....red car - or a friend of the kids....red car....
or......a vacumn sales man!!! or even the fuller brush man!!!
back to scenario:
LE ALWAYS looks at the spouse.
well...spouse has a lotta secrets that wanted hidden in the back closet. but when the door opened...LOTTSA secrets came tumbling out.
<modsnip>
(am i ok so far TOS?)
Back to - NO BODY NO CRIME.
Well... u have a man that "disappeared" 2 days b 4 fathers day.
That family has a lotta secrets. What part of those secrets RM kept? we don't know - we only know what we are being spoon fed by
a)NCNY
and...
b) the conspiracy theorists over there in the horizon on that OTHER social media page(s).... well... at this point... pages(s)
I don't think he's coming back. EVER.
I don't think he's in hiding because of any resentment towards a unethical spouse....(HINT - elephant in the room)
and he can't just walk away like so many other spouses in a unhappy fake pretend superficial marriage...but once you scratch under the surface - you have a lot of suppressed anger.........
He's never ever coming back.
and I think that the ELEPHANT in the room knows exactly what the deal is.
And last but not least, I think I would bet the family farm that LE is reading all of our posts.....just thinking out loud.
As far as ....the crumbs we are being fed...
the scrap yard.....Lot to do about nothing
$300 - more to do about nothing
the bicycle - even more to do about nothing.
phone shut off in garage drawer...even MORE to do about nothing.
alllllll....fake leads...
they have not LED to one thing that amounts to ANYTHING.
You have a man who is 6 feet 2.....who has "disappeared"
and no scent from his car (leaving his car)
You have a man who has two teen agers and a mom and siblings.
He HAD a place to go should he leave his wife.
My sincere belief is that he's not coming back.....
I firmly believe LE is all over this case. Especially given the <modsnip>.....background. And I do believe we will find out the truth by
Thanksgiving.
That is my two cents.
to mods: if i've mentioned anything that is against the rules...
please mod snip. thank you.
Agreed...I think its why they kept the car...Why Thanksgiving??? I always wondered if his family and friends knew he just took off....Not a peep really from them....
FACT: no body - no crime.
FACT: LE ALWAYS looks at the spouse....FIRST - MIDDLE and LAST.
but...<modsnip>
she wasn't <modsnip> HOME
for those precious 10 minutes.
neighbors camera had Top of Red Car or Side of Red Car - but only a partial Red Car. We can assume it was his car...or.....it could be a friend of hers....red car - or a friend of the kids....red car....
or......a vacumn sales man!!! or even the fuller brush man!!!
back to scenario:
LE ALWAYS looks at the spouse.
well...spouse has a lotta secrets that wanted hidden in the back closet. but when the door opened...LOTTSA secrets came tumbling out.
<modsnip>
(am i ok so far TOS?)
Back to - NO BODY NO CRIME.
Well... u have a man that "disappeared" 2 days b 4 fathers day.
That family has a lotta secrets. What part of those secrets RM kept? we don't know - we only know what we are being spoon fed by
a)NCNY
and...
b) the conspiracy theorists over there in the horizon on that OTHER social media page(s).... well... at this point... pages(s)
I don't think he's coming back. EVER.
I don't think he's in hiding because of any resentment towards a unethical spouse....(HINT - elephant in the room)
and he can't just walk away like so many other spouses in a unhappy fake pretend superficial marriage...but once you scratch under the surface - you have a lot of suppressed anger.........
He's never ever coming back.
and I think that the ELEPHANT in the room knows exactly what the deal is.
And last but not least, I think I would bet the family farm that LE is reading all of our posts.....just thinking out loud.
As far as ....the crumbs we are being fed...
the scrap yard.....Lot to do about nothing
$300 - more to do about nothing
the bicycle - even more to do about nothing.
phone shut off in garage drawer...even MORE to do about nothing.
alllllll....fake leads...
they have not LED to one thing that amounts to ANYTHING.
You have a man who is 6 feet 2.....who has "disappeared"
and no scent from his car (leaving his car)
You have a man who has two teen agers and a mom and siblings.
He HAD a place to go should he leave his wife.
My sincere belief is that he's not coming back.....
I firmly believe LE is all over this case. Especially given the <modsnip>.....background. And I do believe we will find out the truth by
Thanksgiving.
That is my two cents.
to mods: if i've mentioned anything that is against the rules...
please mod snip. thank you.
So MKNGBIRD why Thanksgiving???
thanksgiving is a super huge family
FUN holiday.
its the beginning of fun
parties
over eating...
great food....
thanksgiving is the macy's parade on the tv
or football
its very family oriented.
This is not a search page per the admins, it is a place for support and love. No ideas or questions allowed.
For those of you who have been around for other "cases"...
How was FB handled? Was there alt of turmoil, as in this case? Were questions answered liberally?