To be honest, I was really referring to those who make an excuse for every lie he's been caught out in. I had an open mind myself until the cross-examination got underway and actually found it hard to believe that anyone could be so untruthful. There's always two sides to every story and I like to hear both sides first, but once the lies kept coming and coming, well the tables turned for me.
As trials unfold we get more and more information to consider. We are all making ongoing decisions about what information is important or definitive and what information must then be explained in some other way. That's reasoning. For example I find these things to be very important:
- there is far more precedent for Oscar overreacting, gun in hand, to perceived threats in his home than there is to him meting out physical violence on a girlfriend
- the relationship was new and mostly good and the were in general very affectionate towards each other; murderous rage is a significant step from even the ugliest of their handful of disagreements
- the evidence very strongly suggests to me that the gunshots and cricket bat strikes came in two discreet groups and that the shots were first; if so this is fatal to the prosecution theory
And to a lesser extent:
- the evidence is consistent with Oscar's version of standing at the entrance to the bathroom and firing into the door as he claims; this is a more credible distance and angle for reacting to an 'intruder' than it is for a direct confrontation with a known target you are in a rage against
- if they hadn't gone to bed that night I would have expected some activity on at least one of their electronic devices that indicated definitive human action, even briefly and even once.
So the pieces of evidence that to my mind are important have me leaning to Oscar's version being fundamentally true. That means I have to find alternate explanations for things which seem to implicate him. Those on the other side of the fence must do it too for potentially exculpatory information. This is not making excuses, it's building a narrative that is internally consistent. So in my case that means things like:
- rejecting the crime scene photographs as completely reliable based on the fact that things are known to have been disturbed and the fact that one of the first cops on the scene was banished and branded and not even here to testify
- accepting that Oscar may indeed have been yelling and screaming in a high pitch at times and that witnesses would have a bias to hearing a high pitch as a female voice; I have to go further and perceive intermingled voices as a construction of memory rather that an actual event. This is where it might be perceived that I am "making excuses", which In a sense I am. But it comes from my belief that the objective evidence indicates that the bat came second which means Reeva could not have been screaming, so there must be an alternate explanation for what the witnesses heard.
- believing that Oscar's inconsistencies are issues with memory, character and personality, fear of conviction and the nature and goals of cross examination rather than an indication that he is lying about targeting Reeva rather than an 'intruder'
And so on. I realize that many of you see this as making excuses or close mindedness or having ones head in sand etc. but it is just the individual nature of thought and experience and reasoning. If challenge and stretching ones mind and capacity for empathy is valued then thought in opposition to our own is far more precious than agreement. The minority opinion is almost always undervalued on discussion boards and its holders often demoralized to the point of withdrawing. I think there is some evidence of that happening in these discussions and I think it has perhaps begun to affect the conversation.