remorse defined in SCA case law
"There is, moreover, a chasm between regret and remorse. Many accused persons
might well regret their conduct, but that does not without more translate to genuine remorse. Remorse is a gnawing pain of conscience for the plight of another. Thus genuine contrition can only come from an appreciation and acknowledgement of the extent of one's error.
Whether the offender is sincerely remorseful, and not simply feeling sorry for himself or herself at having been caught, is a factual question. It is to the surrounding actions of the accused, rather than what he says in court, that one should rather look. In order for the remorse to be a valid consideration, the penitence must be sincere and
the accused must take the court fully into his or her confidence. Until and unless that happens, the genuineness of the contrition alleged to exist cannot be determined.
After all, before a court can find that an accused person is genuinely remorseful, it needs to have a proper appreciation of, inter alia:
what motivated the accused to commit the deed; what has since provoked his or her change of heart; and whether he or she does indeed have a
true appreciation of the consequences of those actions.
http://www.saflii.org/za/cases/ZASCA/2015/187.pdf
ETA An incidental link is that Lerena tells us that OP is off women as he still loves Reeva!!! Something he will need to keep shoring up until all his judicial opportunities are used up.