I think the only hoax that Mr. Sweeten is involved in is the one pulled on him and the country by the wife he thought he could trust.
I don't think he knew one thing about any of this. In fact I think it would behoove him greatly to have an accountant check out their own personal finances and especially his landscaping business which he stated that Bonnie does all of the accounting and bookkeeping.
I think he is going to find that not only had she bilked money out of her past employer but has misappropriated funds from their personal account. It also would not surprise me if he learns she has put them into further debt behind his back.
There is no evidence of domestic violence in this marriage. Any woman who leaves love notes for her husband regularly seems to genuinely know and appreciate they have a loving husband.
This is not the fault of the male imo whether he be the ex husband or the present husband. He is caught up in this nightmare. He and the children will be horribly shamed by all of this. Even his livelihood could suffer from it making it harder to support his family.
No woman who is having domestic discord with her husband goes away on one way tickets under a false ID and leaves a 9 month old baby behind and a distraught 15 year old for him to tend to. Imo, she knew her husband is a good man who would see to it that the ones left behind were well taken care of....
imo