Pam's hubby Wiggins, from all reports we know he was the one that told LE where to find the safe.
I've seen reports of him being referenced as the current husband and her "estranged" husband.
This has been nagging me ever since the latter came out. Was he "estranged" prior to this going down and if so, how did he know where the safe was stashed?
Or was it the case of after the fact, you know the, cya later toots, you're on your own in this one.
I don't know about the rest of you gals and guys, but if I was married and was even temporarily separated from my hubby, and I had gotten myself involved in something such as this, there's no-flippin-way-in-hades I'd tell him anything or even give him an indication of anything going on, and definitely wouldn't let him know where anything had been stashed.
There's so many things with her that no matter how hard I try, I can't get it to add up or even halfway understand it.
As Gene brought up earlier, from all accounts she has been very shrewd in her dealings, until now and even with this, unless more charges are added later, she's managed to minimize her involvement.
The Malden guy that claims he is still married to her, said that she liked to boast about her position in society, both good and bad. Which is the exact same thing that Pat would do, however... Pat did have access to some connections and the people that I still have contact with, have either never heard of her until she was named and arrested for her involvement with the Billings family murders or was known for her failed attempts. Whatever those failed attempts may be, the person I talked to, didn't ask too many questions, although the HIV Hospice or whatever it was supposed to be that burned, springs into my mind as a possible failure. Her handling of that within itself doesn't smack high society or jolly do-gooder, it reeks of scam.
Now from what I personally know of climbing the social ladder, not the ladies gossip corner, church meet up etc. the real high society there's only a few ways to become fully accepted.
The number one way, you're born into it, no worries for the rest of your life, as long as you can keep up with the parties. Next is by marriage, even better when you and your spouse were both born into it. Buddy up with someone that has a lot of power and have a truckload of money to throw around to BUY your way in. There's a few other ways, but I won't go into them, as the third seems to fit nicely.
It doesn't matter if you're in Pensacola, FL, Birmingham, AL, Los Angeles, Ca, New Orleans, La, Chicago, IL, Seattle, WA, New York, NY, London, Paris, Madrid, Rome or Hong Kong, the key players are all connected by marriage or business, therefore somebody is always going to know somebody and keep the circle continuous.
Given that and seeing how Pam was "living", she's far from being high society, wannabe, but not true high society. Somebody show me a picture of her attending an event with some true American or European elite and I'll change my mind.
The only society classification I'm seeing with her is limbo society, living on over-extended credit, to give the illusion of being something more than she really is and it's all crashing down, which is the case with about half of America.
If she really was all that and the box of chocolates, the flood gates of friends of a friend, would have been all up in the media's faces the day she was arrested, defending her and bailing her out, but what do we see, the hubby on GMA dishing dirt.
If she was really connected, her financial problems would've been taken care of, before anything ever hit the courts.
And you can't even blame the economy, while some events have been scaled back, when I did my ever so faithful weekend check in, The Hamptons were hoppin, South Beach was poppin, as were all of the other favorite spots.
I'm becoming more convinced this woman has bs'd her way through everything she has ever done. It's the only thing that even somewhat makes sense.