I try hard not to be harsh in my comments, but when you contrast the following scenarios, it is really telling.
Contrast JA's mitigation list with what they could NOT say about jodi:
1. Good daughter, granddaughter, sister;
2. Loving friend to many;
3. Service to others;
4. Good to pets;
5. Unselfish;
6. Honest;
7. Would have been a good wife, mother
Then, Contract JA's mitigating factors with Travis' life traits:
1. Motivational speaker
2. Wonderful brother, son and grandson,
3. Dearly loved friend,
4. Special boyfriend, even to multiple ex-girlfriends,
5. Loved animals as family,
6. Served a two year mission of service, at his own expense,
7. Absolutely improved his life and motivated others to do the same,
8. Served in church callings,
9. Lifted up family and friends with his speaking abilities,
10. Life-loving, fun young man who threw parties for others and included everyone
11. Unselfish;
12. Young, full life ahead;
13. Would have been a wonderful father, husband, and friend.
Just a few, but you get the idea...
Just so telling to me....