Hazel, I have the feeling that whatever BH was planning on saying to him, once she saw him face to face her emotions took over and she got overwhelmed, that's why it comes across like it does.
Was it a mistake for her to even go there? Looking at it as an outsider, maybe we can say that it was. But if it were my child, after over five years of being taunted by the person responsible for my child's disappearance, after seeing him get away time after time, after seeing him protected and my child denograted by people close to him, seeing him make money off of his crime against my child, I don't know what I would do if given the chance to go see him, I might have done it too.
I actually have to applaud her for her restraint, I don't know if I could have held back for more than a minute without putting my hands around his throat wanting to choke the truth out of him.
JMHO
I feel so sad for her, what a terrible thing to lose your daughter, and not know what happened nor where she is. I cannot even start to imagine the nightmare she must be in
my heart goes out for her.
Was it a mistake for her going there? No, I don't think it was a mistake, I would have probably wanted to do the same if God forbid I'll ever be in that awful situation......however, her going there is
not what I am questioning.
I understand she must have been overwhelmed and everything,
had she slapped him, spitted in his face, insulted him, yelled at him, and like you said: "
putting my hands around his throat wanting to choke the truth out of him"....ALL that would have been understandable given the circumstances, BUT that is not what happened: she is really calm, and what I am questioning is the significance of what she is telling him...no doubt there is a 'message' in her words.
I am questioning:
What is she offering him?
Also, it is VERY clear that it is her who approaches him with a 'deal' or 'offer' or whatever anyone wants to call it. It hurts her own case, because now people are going to wonder if the 'sting' operation initiated on her end, and not what we have been told all this time: that it was him who initiated it by requesting $ in exchange for info.
IMHO her 'offer' is very clear, and that is just plain wrong. He is there for a crime he committed there. Someone needs to let her know it is a sovereign country, and not a US colony. I guess
J already learned his lesson that when you go to another country, you are a guest and you need to respect and abide by their laws.
I have been reading that Wikipedia entry [ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beth_Holloway"]Beth Holloway - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia[/ame] and I am now learning about all the other 'ideas' she had in order to get info out of
J. Everything she has tried so far has failed, and not only that, it has made things worst.
I wonder how the US reaction would have been if a Peruvian citizen is smuggled into a US prison, with hidden camera, and makes same offer to a prisoner held there for murdering a US girl. To see things clearly, sometimes is good to reverse things, and see them from another perspective.