Might I just suggest that when folks here have suffiently narrowed down a "potential subject," they bring that info here, let others assess it as well, and, if it warrants a direct contact, let someone like Sherlock do that - to avoid bombarding these people with nosey e-mails. Communication with these folks needs to be professional, sensitive and factual. What if someone actually finds Anna but an inappropriate communication with her scares her off?
And, to CMA, I don't think for a minute that anyone here is intentionally sending ugly or nasty e-mails. It's just that sometimes wording is everything!!