There was an interview where Patsy said something like do you think I wrote this note before or after I killed jonbenet? (She was speaking sarcastically).
I am going to find that part of the interview and post it here.
I am wondering if there is anyone here who thinks the note may have actually been written before JB was killed.
Also if there is anyone here who believes the murder was a planned thing (I'm not sure WHY it would have been a planned killing, but I'm just wondering if there's anyone who thinks that).
Yes.
PDI.
If Burke wanted to kill his sister why not wait until the cruise and shove her overboard?
PR implicated others:
- JR with the rare fibers from the shirt from Israel.
- JAR with the suitcase, children's book and bedding enclosed
- Burke with his fingerprints on the bowl of pineapple
- Burke with his red knife in the basement
- AG employee with the bonus amount in RN
- Priscilla White with the matching sweater
- Santa Bill with his sincere love for JonBenet
- LHP who PR claimed requested a loan - the check was never written
- And so forth...
Patsy Ramsey was diagnosed with deadly Stage 4 Ovarian cancer in 1994. The survival rate and life expectancy is within 5 years after diagnosis.
Theoretically, Patsy could anticipate living until JonBenet was around 10yo. Fortunately for Patsy, she had access to the very best of medical care.
Patsy's mother, Nedra, lived with her daughter for a while during the cancer battle. Patsy had a nanny for the children and a housekeeper who cleaned
3 days a week.
During the time of treatments, Patsy likely became depressed. Her body ached as it changed from the ravages of chemo and cancer. It may have left her incontinent. Her hair fell out. Her libido changed. Maybe she became irritable. Angry. Wondering: why me?
Patsy pushed herself, or rallied, to use one of her favorite words. She wanted to survive to accomplish something significant but she knew the Stage 4 was a death sentence.
JonBenet was entered into pageants to turn heads and win. Patsy was re-living her childhood dreams via her daughter. Patsy had lost her own sexuality so she transposed it onto JonBenet.
How must JonBenet have felt when her mother bleached her natural brunette hair color? ["She's six years old. She's blonde. She's six years old." - from the 911 call]
JonBenet wore make-up with perfectly coiffed hair in almost every picture we have seen of her.
The provocative look given to JonBenet, especially in competition, was for Patsy who still needed to be a sexy diva but more importantly, she needed the attention.
Patsy craved the attention she received while she was ill. Patsy also enjoyed the thrill of [JonBenet] winning the pageants and for a while her desire for attention was satiated.
JonBenet was no longer a cherished daughter; she had become an object or an extension of Patsy. Patsy changed her 5yo daughter's hair color. She did whatever she wanted to her.
During the summer of 96, Patsy sought plastic surgery. She admitted to having her chin padded and her breast augmentation restored. She moved back into the marital bed but had no desire.
Now, no one wants to consider a mother sexually abusing her own daughter. Although it's not highly reported, it does happen.
A mother's abuse is usually harsh; perhaps, harsher than a man who rapes. The daughter is digitally penetrated. The abuse can escalate. One mother used the leg from a chair.
Sexual abuse from one's mother is counterintuitive to all we hold dear about our mothers being the place of safety. It is the ultimate betrayal and most difficult for survivors to recover from this abuse.
Mothers are not always seeking an orgasm for themselves when they abuse their daughters. They enjoy the sadism in the act such as the pain it causes the victim.
Patsy wrote the RN, in advance. She bought the days of the week size 12s. She purchased the cord and tape weeks prior. She decorated with the color purple. JonBenet wore a purple dress for their family party on the 23rd. She also wore it to St Johns Church on Christmas Eve. JonBenet wore the gold bracelet engraved with her death date. Patsy recently purchased the white burial gown. Patsy also purchased a jacket matching PW's, then, wore it during the crime to implicate PW.
The head injury and strangulation occurred in close proximately to each other. Hence, there is no way a panicked parent could conceive such a horrendous death on the spur of the moment.
Doesn't everyone agree the death occurred in the basement? That location was not a random choice. There was no accident. There was malice and forethought given to each detail.
Just my humble opinion...
