Timex said:
Seeing another person while seperated would in no way paint her in a bad light. Why on earth would doing so give anyone reason to "have a bad thing to say about her"?
She could have easily gone to dinner with someone during the time of seperation...or to a movie or any number of things. Seeing does NOT equal sleeping with, at least not in my book.
I didn't mention anything of a sexual nature, Timex. I stated that I thought her behavior as a pregnant woman in early pregnancy would probably put things in a different light.
I don't know what your personal history with pregnancy is, but most women have morning sickness that lasts all day long. They are extremely fatigued due to hormonal changes and generally want to " nest" and rest. She was also grappling with the situation of her separation from Raven. I doubt that, due to her very shy nature, making friends and influencing people were high priorities to her. Her college friends have said how painfully shy she was. I see signs of shyness on the videos and in their photos.
Looking for motive:
If you are saying that she befriended someone who then killed her, what would the motive be? I know that motive is not necessary to prosecute, but human behavior tells us that there is a motive, regardless of its establishment in a court of law or not.
I could be wrong, but I have said all along that a woman does not have the upper body strength to inflict the 3 known wounds to her body, especially with her height and strength as a soccer player. Women generally have very low upper body strength. I think Janet would have had the advantage in a hand to hand knife weilding situation with a woman.
If you are saying that a man killed her, then again, I ask, what type of interaction would she possibly have had with a friend who would turn around and murder her? I have many friends who are male. All of them are also friends of my spouse, but still, to think that one of them would slash me to death is unfathomable. We pick and choose our friends carefully. I see Janet as being that same type of person. Not Raven though. I think he was superficially charming to everyone, a true friend to no one.
I can't see any part of the crimescene being about money. Raven's embezzlement and firing had to be known to their friends and family.. Janet had just given birth.. but she had to find a new job too, even though she wasn't the thief in the family.
I've tried really hard to come up with a viable scenario and motive of an intruder, either known or stranger, killing her, and it just doesn't fly. Any more than a stranger killing Lori Hacking made sense. Any more than a stranger abduction and murder of Laci Peterson made sense.
I appreciate your outlook. I just don't see it or feel that it happened that way. I think the adult she was closest to in the world killed her due to a rage-with the subject matter unknown to us at this time.
Thanks for letting me clarify that I in no way implied anything about an intimate or sexual relationship either.