With all due respect I was not questioning the Wetterling's decision. I don't see how you came to that conclusion from my post. I referred to DH in rather base terms, and was drawing the distinction that the Wetterling's, Patty Wetterling in particular, takes the high road...I am not that graceful.
Fair enough. I don't know my reply was to you or not. If it was, I'm sorry if I seemed rude.
Nice to meet you.