I do know Travis cared for Jodi. I do remember Skye saying Travis didn't want to hear it when other people spoke ill of her. He did seem more open to discussing it with his friends though. I think he was conflicted. That's pretty normal for someone you have or had strong feelings for. My sister was recently in a relatiobship with a guy, on and off, who drew this conflict out in her. He was her first love. He was not a good guy. He treated her terribly, would lead her on, was a bad influence on her life. Break up with her and take her back. I didn't like him. And she was depressed all the time and he created negative feeling in her. But she would wait around for him, try and get him to take her back even though she knew he wasn't good to her. I tried to tell her this guy was no good for her. She'd complain about him but try and tell her how you feel and she would get mad. Didn't want to hear it.
I do think he wanted to be free of Jodi. If she never moved to Mesa their dysfunctional relationship would not have become the mess that it did. She'd be in Cali and he'd be in AZ and they would just be friends. She created a conflict in him.
Eta: I disagree very much she isn't trying to convince the world she knew him better. Very much. She is. That's exactly what all this is. It's the reason for that psychotic letter to the family. It's the reason she had to stamp all over Samantha and Steven's VIS's. Travis wasn't the glue, his grandmother was. You're wrong. Don't talk about your grandmother like I didn't know her. Travis confided in ME about her and I even met her. She had to be the one.
I think "conflicted" says it all. The DT tried to twist this into a reason why he abused her. I think the truth is he was simply exhausted by feeling conflicted, nonstop , about a woman who just would not leave him alone, ever.
I agree with you 100% that he was incredibly relieved to see her move back to CA. That journal entry of his is self explanatory....on an evening, shortly after she left, when he realizes he hasnt heard from her all day and writes:
Havent heard from her all day! Never thought that would happen! It feels great!