jillycat
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I don't know what OM meant when he said he hadn't "seen" Heather since October, vs perhaps calling or texting her. But there is quite a discrepancy between 'I called to tell her to stop calling me' and 'he called to say he left his wife and wanted to be with Heather'. Both claims have been reported.
In regard to her Twitter, I don't see anything that tells me anything about where she is or how she got there. I see some links between her and OM that coincide with a relationship of some kind for some period of time, that appears to be brief. And I see tweets that reflect what tweets often reflect - people posting in the moment, with their next tweet having an entirely different emotional tenor and context.
Twitter is a very fluid environment that moves rapidly. And by the time you're following 200 people and are followed by 500+, your timeline/feed is loaded with content that becomes material for re-tweets, as the mood suits you, or when you see something in the moment that's interesting or related perhaps to something you remember from another context. Heather's tweets also reflect that she listened to Pandora and she tweeted in the moment about what was playing. Who knows what inspired the tweet that's been brought up here. But scores of new tweets by others can drop into your feed in a matter of seconds. I've looked at my feed and seen 20+ new tweets since my last glance. Twitter also makes suggestions on what you might be interested in based on how you organize your account and who you follow and what they say. The song could have been something from that point of reference or something she saw mentioned in her feed. But it tells me nothing about Heather whatsoever.
Twitter is an off the cuff kind of social media environment for short remarks. A 20 year old is likely not that discerning about what he or she is tweeting in any given moment. And if apologies from movie and rock stars and politicians after a regrettable tweet are a guide, a lot of people aren't that discerning.
I don't know Heather at all based on her Twitter or Tumblr or FB. I get a sense of some of her personality and her sense of humor and the subject matter that is/was part of her 20 year old experience. That's all.
As for what happened, we're all speculating at this point because we have so little information. But that's my take on the comments we know about from OM, her social media and the nature of Twitter. For whatever it's worth.
In regard to her Twitter, I don't see anything that tells me anything about where she is or how she got there. I see some links between her and OM that coincide with a relationship of some kind for some period of time, that appears to be brief. And I see tweets that reflect what tweets often reflect - people posting in the moment, with their next tweet having an entirely different emotional tenor and context.
Twitter is a very fluid environment that moves rapidly. And by the time you're following 200 people and are followed by 500+, your timeline/feed is loaded with content that becomes material for re-tweets, as the mood suits you, or when you see something in the moment that's interesting or related perhaps to something you remember from another context. Heather's tweets also reflect that she listened to Pandora and she tweeted in the moment about what was playing. Who knows what inspired the tweet that's been brought up here. But scores of new tweets by others can drop into your feed in a matter of seconds. I've looked at my feed and seen 20+ new tweets since my last glance. Twitter also makes suggestions on what you might be interested in based on how you organize your account and who you follow and what they say. The song could have been something from that point of reference or something she saw mentioned in her feed. But it tells me nothing about Heather whatsoever.
Twitter is an off the cuff kind of social media environment for short remarks. A 20 year old is likely not that discerning about what he or she is tweeting in any given moment. And if apologies from movie and rock stars and politicians after a regrettable tweet are a guide, a lot of people aren't that discerning.
I don't know Heather at all based on her Twitter or Tumblr or FB. I get a sense of some of her personality and her sense of humor and the subject matter that is/was part of her 20 year old experience. That's all.
As for what happened, we're all speculating at this point because we have so little information. But that's my take on the comments we know about from OM, her social media and the nature of Twitter. For whatever it's worth.
