LETS BACK UP A LITTLE BIT
(This is to provide context for several points: that the come clean conversation coupled with TAs April 6 threat of exposing her likely framed her efforts to retaliate and to set up him; that TA began reality testing with friends about her lies the very day he thought she was leaving Mesa, that at this point he seemed conflicted about how much to believe/trust her and though he was genuinely angry with her, was still susceptible to her manipulations; and that he was still quick enough to forgive her, perhaps in part because he found her obsession about him flattering---a contrast to how he cut her off on May 22.
Whats also interesting is that she apparently played the Steve Carroll/fake email jealousy card during that come clean conversation, which IMO explains why she trotted it out again on May 9thit was sure to provoke him, on many levels, jealousy not being one of them).
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Back to the time when the left Mesa. She was originally supposed to leave March 30, then April 1st, then April 3; she actually left on April 4, in the afternoon.
JA and her DT tried to blur the timeline and details about her departure date, the fights that happened around that time, and what the fights were about.
In her trial testimony JA said the day she left, she and TA had a horrendous argument, that Travis flipped her off, and that shed left Mesa crying. She said that TA had already had a come clean at this point about Lisa AND that Michelle-Maria spy, a stranger wandering into whatever dive she was waitressing in, recognized her and told her about Lisa.
Said Michelle-Maria told her this in April, maybe the day before JA left Mesa. During the come clean (date not provided) she just thought poor Lisa, and TA raved about Mimi. (Day 18, around minute 40-50).
Trying to explain away TAs text on April 6, she said TA was angry about Michelle spy, had his facts wrong,
and was angry about Steve Carroll because hed gone into her Gmail account and read IMs between JA and SC, shed starting chatting with SC after finding him on LDS linkup.
At trial JA says their big fight (date unspecified) was when he attacked and choked her during a conversation about many things, including the pedo phamplets she had given him; this attack, in trial lies, was the 3rd or 4th and last of TAs physical abuse (October, Jan. 21, early March when she told him she was leaving).
Other versions of the come clean conversation/abuse:
Letter to family---
a month before I left, had a come clean conversation.
TA confessed he had been seeing Lisa the whole time JA was in Mesa, and raved about Mimi being the one. Then my turn, he went nuts, hurting himself, then me, left bruises. That was the first time he hurt me.
The 2nd time was on Tuesday in early April, the week I left Mesa, he left bruises, men at Tempe business briefing joked about it. The mean April 6 text was because he was angry Id moved, angry I was dating other guys.
Manifesto
a few months prior to my leaving Mesa we had a come clean conversation, I learned about Lisa, he raved about Mimi. My turn
.I told him about some of the dates Id been on, when and with whom. He flew into a rage. The more I tried to calm him down the angrier he became. I didnt understand why hed be upset about my trying to move on, especially since he liked Mimi so much. He shut the door and told me I wasnt leaving. First time he was violent towards me. The second time was a Tuesday morning in April, 2 days before I left Mesa. Briefing, bruises, laughs.
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From text record. Texts are paraphrased unless in direct quotes, and are taken from the Beth Karas on Crime subscription website (some of the texts are also widely available).
April 1. 11AM, TA tells Michelle that JA had come clean with him earlier in the morning, supposedly because she was (supposed to be) leaving that day. They talked about whether or not she had slashed his tires (she denied it), but she confessed that shed watched TA make out with Lisa at his house twice.
TA tells Michelle that he hasnt had any privacy for a year, that shes read my texts and journals several times, gone into my emails, and has had this Michelle spy for the past 6 months telling her about Lisa and Mimi.
Its frustrating not to have any privacy, hard on me and Lisa has been caught in the middle; the tire slashings didnt help. Since JA didnt slash them, even after she leaves it means a psycho is still out there. TA wonders if Michelle the spy is the one who sent Lisa the horrible *advertiser censored* letter.
Tells Michelle: I guess to some extent I should be flattered. This kind of attention is usually reserved for celebrities.
Michelles responses: Crazy. Crazy intense. Since shes such a lying liar, why would you believe her about Michelle the spy?
Michelle- maybe shes trying to own up to it and make it right?
TA- I suppose.
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JA doesnt leave Mesa until the afternoon of April 4. On April 2-4 TA is texting with Maria, who is telling him shes interested in hooking up with him and making babies, and with CL, who hes invited to the gigantic brunch hes planning for Sunday, April 6(perhaps in celebration of her leaving, eh?).
April 6. 10:27PM. Text, TA to JA (JA is supposedly in Hollister, CA).
Do not call me. And do not text me anything. (Give me info on this person nobody knows who knows details about my personal life). Would take you 15 minutes but you wont. Why. Because its a fing lie. So either text me that you are ready to tell the truth or give me imaginary friend the worst BS story you have ever told or leave me alone. Its a lie like no other. It is freaking foolish.
There is no way out of it, you have screwed up your story so bad there is no mending it. You are caught. When you will realize that I dont know. You have until tomorrow (to give me this persons info) before I tell the Hughes, Leslie Udy, the Freemans, your parents and anyone else that matters about all the crazy things you have done.
So either fess up or feel the wrath. No matter how bad the truth is I promise the punishment will be better than the lie. This is worse than your magical email that a mysterious man youve never met before wrote for you. (noteSteve Carroll). You insult me by thinking Ill believe such crap. Nothing else from you til the truth. I already know youre lying so why continue.
After tomorrow its going to get real bad for you.
April 6 11:22PM -12:34AM
(After JA called TA). TA texts Elyse: Just caught her in the lie about Michelle the spy, she told me a lot of crazy things, about sneaking into my house and sleeping on the couch and leaving before I got up, driving around my house almost every night.
Elyse: thats insane! She needs serious help.
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April 8.
4:32AM. JA to TA. How dare you.
11:18AM. JA to TA. Yes and no.
11:27AM. TA to JA: Thanks a freaking lot for having me sign the drawing then leaving it. Always drama.
11:43AM. JA to TA: Doesnt sound like its me being dramatic dear. Call me ASAP.
11:54 AM.. TA to JA: Dont call back. Im sick of dealing with you playing stupid and dealing with childish tactics. It was some stupid *advertiser censored* way of ruining another day of mine. Which you have done so much of. Bitter feelings are brewing in me towards you. Im sick of having days ruined by you.
If it keeps up I fear Im going to have a genuine dislike of you. Im asking you before it gets to that to stop doing it, before I seek revenge. Your account with me is overdrawn. (PS, get a job and start paying me back for the car).
(JA replies---just an accident, it was sentimental and that bothered me but then I realized I could just file it in away in my sentimental folder. Forget about it. Try to have a good day. If you burn it Id understand. Be happy!)
12:21 PM. TA to JA: Its just always something, J. It just gets old. (
) (Leaving it was) rude and inconsiderate of me. Which has been a common trend by you recently. (You left it on purpose) because you knew it would upset me but you simply dont care. Just like lying to me (about Michelle) and wasting my time for a week looking for her.
You just dont care how this affects me. Trying to save my house and build a business ( and having to deal with a lot of PPL conflict ) but you dont care because you dont care about anything that doesnt involve you.
Its very upsetting and Im tired of it. I dont want to deal with any stupid ploy by you, big or small.
Youre not sorry. If you were (you wouldnt keep doing this kind of stuff). Im just asking you to think of me. (If I did something like this to you, you would cry for weeks).
Just give me a pardon from any madness. I dont need it, and its wearing me out.
Just like I have to give you motivation to tell me the truth. Ill give you motivation to quit screwing with me.
12:34 PM JA to TA: honestly just a mistake. I feel like since I left AZ a fog has lifted, I was confused in so many ways, its all behind us, we both have a lot of recovering to do and a lot to be thankful for/happy about, things are already better, :havent felt this good for soooo long, almost forgot what it was like. I love you.
2:22PM. JA thanks TA for calling, that was very nice of you. TA replies youre welcome, and asks her about when they took their trip to Sedona.