krkrjx
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The shower pics were found where? Weren't they all date and time stamped? Travis allowed her to take the pics of him naked in the shower and the picture taking went on for more than several minutes. I doubt he asked her to take them, and she might have even surprised him in the shower after he thought she had left. But he let her take the pics.
(Up to the ones where he's sitting down, because I'm convinced she had pulled out the gun to make him do so).
IMO there is no way he would have done so if they hadn't been "intimate" earlier. It would have creeped him out or even flat out scared him otherwise, and he would at least have turned off the shower and made himself less vulnerable.
I think TA may have allowed the shower photo session in the manner you describe: That she left (or he thought she had) and came back and started snapping pics. However, even if he did allow it to continue once it started, for me that does not mean they were intimate earlier.
In a normal relationship that might be the case, but this thing between the two of them was anything but normal. And look how often Travis did or did not say or do something that he should or should not have under the circumstances. IOW, he basically kicked her to the curb many times and wanted her to leave him alone but then allowed her to contact him and weasel her way back in.
I always felt Travis was not harsher with her because it was just not in his nature to be harsh toward others. The few times he went off on her verbally or via texts/emails were times that she had pushed him so far beyond his limit that he could not stop himself, but it was temporary and he actually felt bad about it after things cooled off some. And then there she was, right back where he didn't want her to be.
I do not believe TA knew JA was coming to Mesa that night but when she showed up he let her in. Or, she snuck in and when he found her there he let her stay. I also think he thought she was on her way home (or wherever she told him she was headed) by the time he got in the shower that fateful day and she snuck back in the house and again he let her stay. He was probably annoyed at that as well as her snapping pics but not pushed to his limit so didn't try to stop her.
Intimacy during that visit may or may not have happened. I believe it could have just because of his inability to say no to JA all the times when he should have, but I also never felt that any intimacy that did occur went the way she described. I think he may have done some things to "humor" her but I do not believe he was intimate with her. I think she did some things that he didn't put a stop to and that any participation on his part was minimal at best--just going through the motions to appease, not real "intimacy" at all.
ETA: Another example of TA going through the motions to appease is, IMO, on the sex tape. On that tape in the beginning he sounded unsuspecting, perhaps even half asleep. IOW, that particular call was not pre-planned between them, it was all Jodi.
The appeasing is not really a bad thing in this circumstance because that's what phone sex usually is: going through the motions for the benefit of your partner. But, so much ado has happened over his 12-year-old girl comment that I feel the need to say how that appeared to me, and that is that Travis was not at that time and never at any time fantasizing about 12-year-old girls. To my ears, his comment showed annoyance over her using a childish voice. He asked, What's with your voice? You sound like a 12-year-old girl? Arias then asks if he likes that in a voice that suggests that she likes doing it and instead of him saying no he doesn't like it, he goes along with her little fantasy. It was her fantasy as well as her way to get him to say something she could use against him, which she certainly did.
OK, maybe I am hearing annoyance in his voice that wasn't there but each time I listen to that I hear it. To me it comes off as him not caring for what is occurring but going along just to appease. Travis said and did things to appease more times than anyone can count in his dealings with the psychopath and IMO it seems reasonable to assume he did it in the sex tape more than once.
JMO.