I just realized they broke up three times... apologies for confusion, I wrote in one post ahead that I missed that detail from the trial. Only going by Sky's book here, more fleshed out details and some less. Then again I never paid that much attention to Lisa for some reason... In the courtroom, Deanna seemed like the one she hated.
I admittedly recall reading more about this trial than watching it. But I saw a LOT, refer back on limited basis now. I already had the darkest gripping sensation whilst sleeping Thanksgiving night that JA was in my room. I am more interested in Travis' life than being intimidated by all these details about Arias, so I shrugged it off and chalked it up to her behaving like a demon child YET still, a child. So bite me, JA.
Anyway, I tried to go by memory regarding that breakup, (and it wasn't even a roommate), what is actually written here is that at some point after their 2nd breakup, JA also* told a friend of Lisa's sister about the 'messing around.' And I've thought this before, but that's a serious danger to Lisa. Sky thought so as well, that Arias was going to do something horrible to her. And I've had this since it was published, so I'm surprised too, that it was not brought up here... hrm. So many details with this trial. It just never ends. Also, is this more prejudice to the jury? I don't get it.
Yeah, the whole thing is confusing. Below, I'm going to outline it as I understand it. Feel free to add.
According to Sky/Chris, Travis was dating JA and LA at the same time, and Sky wanted him to come clean. She claims she told him that if he brought LA around, she'd tell LA. So he didn't bring LA around Sky. Then, Sky says JA made sure to get the message about her and Travis out through the roommate, who was dating Lisa's sister. So he told Lisa's sister who then told Lisa. THEN Sky said Jodi sent Lisa a message on Travis' phone as if Travis had said "cuddling with Jodi" on a trip that happened prior to the 9/23 email.
I believe that broke Lisa and Trav up for a while. I think this is what Lisa refers to in her testimony when she says she found out that "it wasn't true," or however she phrased it. I think she meant she found out from Travis that he didn't send her that text; jodi did. And also, he hadn't been cuddling with Jodi; it was a lie.
and then by the first week of December, they must have been back together or in the process because that's when the pair started texting about his tire slashing issue. Jodi barely remarks on it in her journal. She can spend pages talking about other stuff, but maybe one sentence on the slashing.
I believe Lisa got the shameful *advertiser censored* email supposedly in December 2007. I believe it was during that month that she also had the incidence of her door chiming.
I think it was January or maybe february that Jodi walked in the house while Lisa was in the kitchen and then ran out.
Lisa's tires were slashed February 11, I think. A sunday night before FHE.
Lisa said she and Travis "mutually" broke up in mid February. Per the texts, it was Feb 20 something. Sky had asked Travis if it was because of Mimi, whom Travis had begun texting and talking about as early as first part of Feb.
I didn't listen to Lisa's testimony as I should have, either, but Lisa is central to all the craziness, and I do agree with Sky that if Lisa hadn't bailed, Lisa might have gotten hurt or killed.
I agree about Deanna, but I think the hate just transferred to whomever Travis was with. Deanna was first because, in Jodi's mind, Deanna was preventing Travis from moving on emotionally. It got transferred like a disease to Lisa when Jodi learned about that relationship. I don't know about Mimi. But Jodi probably figured out really quick that Mimi wasn't interested.
I personally believe Jodi started keeping tabs on Travis and Chaitanya (and maybe Marie), and when those relationships changed in May, Jodi had a problem! I now theorize that it's the reason she tried to lure him back in with sex calls. This seems to be what Travis is so mad about on the 26th G-chat, among other things. I glean that from "you knew just one call would reel me in." (paraphrased.) But it seemed like they had calls in between, so I had to think it was a sex call he was referring to, not just a call. Either that, or she "butt-dialed" him so he could hear her with someone else?
The more I review docs, footage, etc, a theme becomes apparent. Jodi's bitterness about these other women. She even took the time to talk about them in the letter to the Alexanders when she was explaining her mythical ninja attack. It's in her late may journal entries. She can't hide her obsession with the women. Now that I'm writing, I think of how she was obsessed with even Sky.
Oh, and Marie was the last one Travis was hooking up with and actively texting as far as I see. Maybe this Brooke person comes into play soon, but Sky/chris said Jodi tried to get Marie to pick Jodi up from airport for the funeral! Chris kept telling people not to do it, and ultimately, Jodi didn't show. My heart skipped a beat to imagine Marie with Jodi if Jodi knew about Travis doing foreplay with her in May.
Jodi used jealousy as a weapon. She knew how it made her feel, so she tried to make Travis feel it, too, by dropping all the clues about other men. It enraged Travis. No one wants to imagine someone they slept with getting it on with someone else--even if they aren't actually doing it. The theme about her "other men" is also prevalent, as if she wants people to know, "I was fine. I was dating. It didn't hurt me--but it was his fault for telling me to do it."
Then, that mess with Danny Jones. According to the g-chat, after she and travis talked about him on the phone, she took herself up to myspace and started commenting and flirting on the guy's page!
I got a song for Jodi. It's by Gucci Crew. You got to listen to it. "Sally, that girl!" It's explicit, though.
"Jodi! That girl..."
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