In response to Alder. I was an adult entertainer/escort/ call girl/ for ten years. Like mosts lings in life you live and learn. It didn' t take me long to figure out that you NEVER trust the lient to pay you after the call, because for one...they will dangle the proverbial carrot, expecting more than you are willing to give and if they are not happy with the services that you have provided...guess what...they dont wanna pay. At that point you can call your security if you have any and hope that the clientt doesnt want any troubwant any trouble or you can try other tactics like refusing to leave or exposing him. Either way it increases the drama and danger considerably! Even if you insist upon collecting up front there is the danger of them trying to physically take the money back which happens more than you would think. I wpuld love to elaborate more but at the moment I am bouncing around in a moving semi ( my husband drives truck) And its very hard to type on my touch screen phone! ; ) Later when we stop I can go a little more into it if u r still interested!
I am going into work mode in a few here, so i just wanted to say that if I do not respond in a day or so, that's the reason. I look forward to your next post though. And please do not feel obligated to possess one and only one "theory" regarding my questions. I kinda like the recent Socratic approach to the subtopics within this thread--is it fair to say that it's okay not to know everything for now? To temporarily postulate instead? not knowing is the first step to posing, pondering, reflecting (PB might add speculating) upon the right questions perhaps. Einstein would insist upon it. We all want the same things. bb in a few . . .