Me too, but then again mine hardly leave my sight now...
However, one has to remember that they have had that Captain from the Sheriff's department *living* with them. He wasn't with them at the gym. So, logic says he was back at the house with whoever was there.
I would be slightly more comfortable leaving if my baby and babysitter were being guarded by a Sheriff who I had grown to trust. I still probably wouldn't do it... but, I'm not known for doing what is best for ME in the first place.
I understand what you are saying, but it's not even just about the safety. One child is gone. I don't think I could leave the physical presence of my remaining child(ren) even if I felt there was no actual danger. My one child is gone. I would want/need the physical connection with the remaining child(ren).
I don't know how to explain it better. It's just not sitting right with me and it doesn't have anything to do with the safety of the remaining child(ren).