I feel badly for LE and families when this sort of case comes up. In this age of "instant information" and "up to the minute news" every single word, tone, and phrasing choice becomes foddor for us here at WS. People literally have to watch their every single word lest it be analysed and/or misconstrued and given either more or less significance than the speaker intended.
I have wondered, during the years I lurked and the years I have been a member here, what would happen to me if my child went missing and the case was discussed here. I would be factually innocent, of course.
I came to the conclusion that I would have to come here for help and ideas if there was not a speedy resolution. First, I would talk to Tricia and tell her everything I knew and give her proof that I was telling the truth, if proof were available.
Aside from that, I would be very careful of what I said to both LE and the media. I would give LE the information they needed to know.
I would hire an attorney to represent me, if I could afford to.
I would tell them where I had been, who I had been in contact with, and what I had been doing during the time period in question.
I would give them a list of everyone my child and family knows, and a description of the relationship.
I would tell them places my child and family frequent, in case the perp was associated with one of them.
What I would not do is give anyone information to hang me with, including LE, if I were innocent and it did not have a direct bearing on the case.
I would not take a polygraph. If they aren't reliable enough for the results to be admissible in court, they are not reliable enough for me to take my chances.
I would not give LE the right to search my home, my computer, my vehicle, or anything at all unless they had a warrant.
I would appear before the media to ask for my child's return and to talk to my child, in case s/he could hear me, to reassure them that they are loved and wanted and that people are looking for them. I would thank LE, the searchers, and the public. I would urge anyone who knew anything to tell the police.
I would participate in searches and search for my child myself, no matter what anyone else told me to do, unless they could stop me or LE had an extremely good reason for me not doing so.
I would find someone to talk to IRL as I went through this who is required by law to keep client confidences: a therapist or a pastor.