One of the small details that caught my attention is the text from RH to LH about (paraphrasing), "what time are you picking up
my buddy?"
Now, the first thing that occurred to me when I read that is, how commonly did RH refer to Cooper as "my buddy?" And did he commonly refer to Cooper this way in other texts or communication with LH? It just sounds too contrived, or too much like a rehearsed signal, unless this is the way he frequently referred to Cooper.
There was a "boy" doll back in the 80's called "My Buddy"-- and that song popped into my head the first time I heard he texted LH those words. No connection, but it just sounded so strange to me.
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4j2xEwEHbrE
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/My_Buddy_(doll)
(But then, I think the "Bama Bangs" and urinal selfie is weird, too! So who knows.)
And if LH was picking up that day, and RH was headed to a movie with friends, why exactly would it matter what time LH was picking up "his buddy?" For me, it's enough to know my spouse is picking up. My spouse knows what time daycare closes-- I have never needed to ask him what time he is picking up, only "if" he is still able to do the pickup. The "what time" query alone is very odd to me, if they both worked days. Each knew what time the other was supposed to be off work.
So unless there is more context to that text, I find it to be highly strange, in more ways than one.