LadyL
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No, I'm not kidding. I don't know about anyone else but, if my sister were missing, I would speak candidly to police about everything I knew/heard/suspected, and let them do their job.
I wouldn't go to the media and trash talk her husband, and reveal all my sister's private conversations with me. Same as I wouldn't go on facebook and publicly post those things when she was alive and well.
What if she were found alive and came back, furious that I'd told the tabloids about her being depressed, cheated on, etc?
IMO, the only reason to tell tabloids these private stories about your loved one is either money-which I don't believe is the reason in this case, and b.some form of revenge, deliberately trying to destroy someone's reputation.
I realize the family are victims, but it used to be, under WS guidelines, that husbands are family too, and until police name them as a suspect, they are off limits for unfounded accusations. I think that is a good rule, that prevents WS from turning into the typical social media free-for-all.
JMO
I bolded the sentence I was responding to in your post - this one - (IMO this kind of disinformation campaign would not be tolerated if Ana had gone missing in Florida.) my comment was only in response to the bolded, not the rest of your post.
what disinformation campaign? (you said yourself they are private stories not untrue ones) - would not be tolerated by who? and why do you think Florida is somehow better at not tolerating it??? that's what I am most curious about - that you seem to think Florida is superior somehow to Spain
anyway, as you said, the family and friends are considered victims so no one should be passing judgment on them here about what they would do differently if it were their family member