No it doesn't justify him having an affair. But there is no justification for a wife to cut her husband off sexually (either unless for medical reasons) if she plans on staying together. Sex shouldn't be used as a weapon, reward, or bargaining chip in a marriage.
State v Bradley Cooper 04/11/11
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No it doesn't justify him having an affair. But there is no justification for a wife to cut her husband off sexually (either unless for medical reasons) if she plans on staying together. Sex shouldn't be used as a weapon, reward, or bargaining chip in a marriage.
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I think he smirked 'she gave me oral sex' in my house.
< please, is there a thingie for *smack the crap out of him/her*? >
It's got to be that big caveman forehead of his.
PolkSaladAnnie
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Medically maybe NC was concerned about STD's.
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I'm pretty sure it was JA.
That doesn't make it right. If it does, then withholding it should be justification for getting it elsewhere. It's a basic human need (at least for males).
She wasn't aware of the affair back then.
Okay, I wasn't sure if it was JA or Hannah??
I think the drinking water colleague and the FBI guy this morning, Gramps, were the smoking gun. LOL
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didn't she get tested
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'There is no justification for a wife to cut her husband off sexually'? < slaps my ears > Am I hearing this in 2011??? I feel like I somehow fell into a time machine taking me back 40 some years. Hello? In a marriage, two people talk. And sex is mutual. It has nothing to do with 'cutting off'. It has to do with mutual love for each other. Desire. If one or the other doesn't have any desire anymore, due to indifference, lack of time, lack of emotional input into a marriage, then that isn't CUTTING OFF. That is 'lack of desire'. Females are no longer pieces of property. Just because you got a marriage license, doesn't mean you bought the rights to SEX, regardless of feelings/emotions/love/consideration, etc. MOO MOO MOO MOO
Did Cary PD verify the whereabouts of CB on July 11/12?? Just asking....
All the emails from 2004-2007 are interesting to read about from a gossip stand point, but as for changing my mind about BC's guilt, I'd like to hear what was going on in June/July 2008 and even what was happening after the murder between July and his arrest in October.
All the testimony today is from the computers taken in the July SW, correct? So, this evidence shows BC didn't scrub (at least not well) the PC's before or in the days after July 12 (think these were taken around July 16, right?). I think Def can swing this to show he wasn't trying to hide anything from police at that point. There is a different PC taken in Oct that would have emails from after the murder. Can't wait to hear about that one.
All the emails from 2004-2007 are interesting to read about from a gossip stand point, but as for changing my mind about BC's guilt, I'd like to hear what was going on in June/July 2008 and even what was happening after the murder between July and his arrest in October.
All the testimony today is from the computers taken in the July SW, correct? So, this evidence shows BC didn't scrub (at least not well) the PC's before or in the days after July 12 (think these were taken around July 16, right?). I think Def can swing this to show he wasn't trying to hide anything from police at that point. There is a different PC taken in Oct that would have emails from after the murder. Can't wait to hear about that one.
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She went to the doctor specifically for STD testing in April '08, which shows a possibility she was involved with someone. Remember, she was told of the affair (by BC) in 12/07, so why would she wait 4 months to make sure she hadn't picked up an STD (if it was supposed to be from his affair(s))?
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But the answer to that is - get a divorce.
Exactly! IF I even thought my husband was cheating, I wouldn't be rooting around like a wild weasel.
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And in my day, Palomine, it was, er ... French Letters.
These days, it's French E - males! Horror of horrors. Where's my fave all-time singer:
Times they are a'changin
Yes it is mutual. And sometimes in a marriage, people do things they don't really want to simply because they love their partner. These were 2 people in their early 30s.
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