fran
Former Member
M's bedtime? Not work out just before bed. rarely washed hair at night because it took too long to dry. she did work for work at home. usually took shower first. clothes described she was found in weren't her normal nightware.
They discussed having another child after C and new baby was planned. He wanted new baby asap after C born. M wanted to be physically fit first. She miscarried and made plan for another. When preg again he was ecstatic. He learned a boy and he was very excited. He went with her to doctor and it was the time to find out sex of baby. he was there for ultrasound. he saw baby moving and tech turned and he could see it was a boy. both were thrilled. both wanted to experience both boy and girl, it was perfect. No other men in Young family, only way to carry on name.
How found out she was pregnant? Typical M fashon, she planned it out, C toddled into den and she had on shirt that said "I'm going to be a big sister." it didn't hit him at first and M was looking at him and then he looked at C again and he was thrilled. They bought little boy outfits, football shirts, etc.
was M emotionally the same way, yes, description. She got upset about things she usually didn't
M wanted to bring her mom in and live with them. he didn't want to be living with MIL. concerns.......mom, significant diff culterally, he being from mountains and her from NY, she was a bit domineering, she was take charge, things like that. Any issue with amt of time, yes, sir.............discussion with M and third floor for mom and that would be nice but he didn't want to put in in-law suite. just regular room....already approved to put his family-side furn up there. he was adament about LF not living with them. When preg, M would call mom and tell her inaccurate side of arguments. were friends telling truth about wild arguments? yes.................both very passionate and hard headed and didn't want to give in. never physical with her. didn't even throw a remote at her. no sir.
Over years, fighting did not become more frequent. Just during C's preg and better after, but more open but not more often...........just more open about arguments. preg was starting to change hormonally. Meredith trying to be marriage counselor, he was ok with that and encouraged it. Why? his experience Meredith more level headed and he'd rather hear Meredith as a go between and M not calling her mom. Meredith understood her mom and sometimes Meredith would take J's side. Talked about going to professional marriage counseling, M wanted to and was pushing for it. He was hesitant to do that. With C preg, they'd gone to one and not good experience for him, not comf with counselor. comprimised and Meredith made up for that. He was willing to work on issues with marriage. M had issues from past, she admitted it, dark side, some things shared with him and some not shared with him. he thought they effected their intamacy etc. he wanted to stay married to M and wanted to have more kids. she knew that and said 'one at a time.' he realized it was her body. he never seriously thought about divorce. between the two, they did, but it was more heat of the moment, not serious, neither went to lawyer or anything.
They discussed having another child after C and new baby was planned. He wanted new baby asap after C born. M wanted to be physically fit first. She miscarried and made plan for another. When preg again he was ecstatic. He learned a boy and he was very excited. He went with her to doctor and it was the time to find out sex of baby. he was there for ultrasound. he saw baby moving and tech turned and he could see it was a boy. both were thrilled. both wanted to experience both boy and girl, it was perfect. No other men in Young family, only way to carry on name.
How found out she was pregnant? Typical M fashon, she planned it out, C toddled into den and she had on shirt that said "I'm going to be a big sister." it didn't hit him at first and M was looking at him and then he looked at C again and he was thrilled. They bought little boy outfits, football shirts, etc.
was M emotionally the same way, yes, description. She got upset about things she usually didn't
M wanted to bring her mom in and live with them. he didn't want to be living with MIL. concerns.......mom, significant diff culterally, he being from mountains and her from NY, she was a bit domineering, she was take charge, things like that. Any issue with amt of time, yes, sir.............discussion with M and third floor for mom and that would be nice but he didn't want to put in in-law suite. just regular room....already approved to put his family-side furn up there. he was adament about LF not living with them. When preg, M would call mom and tell her inaccurate side of arguments. were friends telling truth about wild arguments? yes.................both very passionate and hard headed and didn't want to give in. never physical with her. didn't even throw a remote at her. no sir.
Over years, fighting did not become more frequent. Just during C's preg and better after, but more open but not more often...........just more open about arguments. preg was starting to change hormonally. Meredith trying to be marriage counselor, he was ok with that and encouraged it. Why? his experience Meredith more level headed and he'd rather hear Meredith as a go between and M not calling her mom. Meredith understood her mom and sometimes Meredith would take J's side. Talked about going to professional marriage counseling, M wanted to and was pushing for it. He was hesitant to do that. With C preg, they'd gone to one and not good experience for him, not comf with counselor. comprimised and Meredith made up for that. He was willing to work on issues with marriage. M had issues from past, she admitted it, dark side, some things shared with him and some not shared with him. he thought they effected their intamacy etc. he wanted to stay married to M and wanted to have more kids. she knew that and said 'one at a time.' he realized it was her body. he never seriously thought about divorce. between the two, they did, but it was more heat of the moment, not serious, neither went to lawyer or anything.
