Oh, give it a year or two or three. Once the thrill wears off of being illicit and in the news, she will leave. JMVHO.
I can't help thinking about his daughter and what she must be going through. Divorce is not easy for kids this age anyway. But to have him moving in and living with one of her peers must take it to a whole new level.
If she were my daughter I would have to question her about if he really did love her and want the best for her. If he did, how could he ask her or even permit her to leave school when she is this near to graduating. When waiting just months would have meant she had graduated and had that piece of paper that means so much when trying to surivive in the working world. I don't care what they say, employers do look down on a GED a bit.
If I could talk to him I would have to ask him what he would say if his 17 yr old daughter turned 18 and came to him and said I am quitting school and moving in with my teacher. How comfortable would he be with that? Would he feel the teacher really had his daughter's best interests at heart? Also how does he plan on supporting his daughter, his new household and his new girlfriend now that he doesn't have a job?
And if I was the daughter, I would be tempted to try to set that up. Not to go through with it, but to try to make arrangements where it looked like she was going to do it.
It's the whole teacher/student thing. It makes for an unequal relationship as he has traditionally had the power role. It's just compounded by the inequality of the ages and experiences.
I can't help thinking about his daughter and what she must be going through. Divorce is not easy for kids this age anyway. But to have him moving in and living with one of her peers must take it to a whole new level.
If she were my daughter I would have to question her about if he really did love her and want the best for her. If he did, how could he ask her or even permit her to leave school when she is this near to graduating. When waiting just months would have meant she had graduated and had that piece of paper that means so much when trying to surivive in the working world. I don't care what they say, employers do look down on a GED a bit.
If I could talk to him I would have to ask him what he would say if his 17 yr old daughter turned 18 and came to him and said I am quitting school and moving in with my teacher. How comfortable would he be with that? Would he feel the teacher really had his daughter's best interests at heart? Also how does he plan on supporting his daughter, his new household and his new girlfriend now that he doesn't have a job?
And if I was the daughter, I would be tempted to try to set that up. Not to go through with it, but to try to make arrangements where it looked like she was going to do it.
This guy is Stupid with a capital S. At best he's losing his family and this relationship will end with her leaving his old *advertiser censored*. At worst, he's going to be put under a microscope and if any illegality is found in his past with this girl, he goes to jail. Dumbass. I feel sorry for his family. They have to live with this humiliation.
Seriously dude look at yourself. Unless you are a millionaire, there is nothing she can really see in you. Following your heart? If by heart you mean male delusions created by male genetalia, then OK. Sounds about right.
If there was abuse, then it's news.
If there wasn't, then it's a personal decision, and not news.
JMO.
He is also being investigated and could possibly be charged if it can be proven that their relationship started before the girl turned 18. A lot of students at the high school he taught at/she was a student say that their relationship started when she was 14. How anyone can think this shouldn't be news is beyond me.
http://sacramento.cbslocal.com/2012...g-investigated-for-relationship-with-student/
BBM So "a lot" of students knew that a 14-year-old girl was having a relationship with a much older teacher and in 4 years the gossip mill never reached an adult? A teacher? A parent? I'm sorry, but that is really hard to believe!
I'll have to sit on this story for a while though? I don't really know what to think just yet? I can't help but think... she's an adult now?
She was not an adult at 14 years old and apparently is not at 18 years old either!
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BBM So "a lot" of students knew that a 14-year-old girl was having a relationship with a much older teacher and in 4 years the gossip mill never reached an adult? A teacher? A parent? I'm sorry, but that is really hard to believe!
I'll have to sit on this story for a while though? I don't really know what to think just yet? I can't help but think... she's an adult now?
I didn't say she was an adult at 14? It said that "a lot" of students at the school knew about a relationship between this girl and this man starting when the girl was 14. I call B/S on that! No way could something like this go on for 4 years, with "a lot" of people knowing, and it not get back to an adult.
Now, if the relationship did start before she turned 18... I say prosecute him. But if it didn't start until after she turned 18... then she's an adult.
Regardless of when this relationship started, I don't see how authorities would be able to prove anything. The 18 year old is saying the relationship didn't start until she was 18, and without her cooperation I fail to see how this case could get anywhere.
Even if such things as hotels receipt existed (which we don't have any evidence of), how could anyone prove they weren't sitting there reciting poetry, for example? Unless the 18 year old says anything I don't think this could go anywhere.