With respect, I haven't seen one poster on here try to even remotely JUSTIFY his actions. Just to try to figure out and WHY he would do something like this. Trying to make sense of it. I honestly don't think you will find one person on this thread who thinks that he is not a monster for what he has done. It's just very scary to think that someone like him (puppy dog eyes, captain of the wrestling team, etc...) is actually a MONSTER inside. Because it shakes everything we think we know about people to its core.
I have often said from the beginning that JT scares me more than TT. At least with TT, you know what you've got when you are dealing with him. He was quite vocal about his radicalism and his hatred for this country. But JT was far better at flying under the radar, hanging with the cool kids, making everyone think he was just a "regular kid." It scares me to think that someone everyone liked and thought was a great kid could drop a bomb next to babies and just walk away as if nothing had happened. Even with seeing it with our very own eyes, it is still so hard to comprehend. Not because we don't believe it. But because it makes us reconsider all of the other things we think we know. It makes us wonder how we can trust ANYONE!!!
So please don't get angry because this should be a safe place for people to express their thoughts and their angst over this. It isn't about him. It's about us. It's about fear and ultimately about strength. What you are seeing is the result of terrorism. It makes us question everything we think we know about the world. It makes us question the safety of simply going to a fun event with other people and enjoying ourselves. It makes us question our neighbors, our friends and sometimes even ourselves. It makes us question EACH OTHER.
Exploring these feelings and verbalizing them is a step in the healing process. No one is more devastated than the victims. The 4 dead innocent people and the 200 people injured and maimed and whose lives are forever changed. But for the terrorists, that is not their "product." They don't even care about the victims as much as they do about the rest of us. Their "product" is FEAR. And by harming a few hundred, they are able to attack millions.
So let's not go there. As long as we are respectful in this place, I feel we should all be able to express ourselves honestly. There is no doubt that JT is a monster. No matter his motivations, his reasons, who was the mastermind, etc... it doesn't change his level of responsibility and blame. It doesn't change the justice he has due to him. No one pities him. It's just that it is a very human tendancy to try to explain the unexplainable and to understand the irrational. It doesn't make sense and it SHOULDN'T make sense. It's just that as humans, our minds don't work that way. We want it to make sense, because then we might be able to do something about it, to prevent it from happening.
So let's not turn on one another in here. It is what THEY want. THEY have already taken enough from us. Don't let them take any more.