LambChop
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But if you were being stalked, wouldn't you change your garage codes.
Maybe she talked him into letting her in, talked more for the sexual stuff... all the while just hoping he would fall asleep.
I am thinking she would have known whether the roommate was there or not.
If she arrived before he left... she talked her way in. If he was gone... all the better.
I'm thinking TA kept his passwords on his computer in a file and she was aware of where they were and could access them from her computer or phone by logging on as him. Everything requires passwords today and keeping them where you know you can get quick access to them to change them in an emergency makes sense. And in today's world you can get access to your files through your phone. Jodi seemed to know a lot of his personal information considering they had been broken up for months.
I also don't understand why there is a belief he had "other" girlfriends. He was dating casually and it sounded as if none of them worked out after a few dates. That is not having a girlfriend. There was no one he was committed to, or no one who had been living with him or he was seeing on a regular basis. He was just trying to go on with his life and was free to do so. He was under no obligation, including Jodi who likes to show up in the middle of the night.
It is very difficult to tell someone who is determined to continue a relationship with you to go away. They just seem to not get it. I truly feel if TA is guilty of anything it's not reporting her to the police. I see no evidence of him being abusive. I think the "I dropped the camera...." came from the fact she did drop the camera and we have proof of it because it took pictures but TA was already mortally wounded. jmo