debs
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I didn't interpret it as complaining - Desiree was giving an example of why she thought Terri wasn't in shock like the rest of them. Giving examples of prior dishonesty and explaining some of the behaviors they witnessed that led them to believe Terri is responsible. Would it have been better if they simply said they think she's responsible...just because? I am glad they gave examples that can lend insight into her behavior as compared with the rest of the family. I think it's important.
Is it possible that they are all lying and throwing Terri under the bus? I suppose it's possible, but why on earth would they do that if they didn't have real and concrete reasons to support that? Makes no sense to me, but that's what's so great about a forum like WS - it allows everyone to come and share opinions and perspectives and compare notes. At the end of the day, Kyron's family, LE, as well as the participants here and the general public only want one thing - for Kyron to be found and the responsible party prosecuted. We all share the same goal.
I suggest these anecdotes ARE just because. Then Desiree attaches a reason to be able to say all the hateful things she's felt over the years. It just so happens that reason has a validity in that there is a child missing, Terri was one of the last persons to see Kyron (according to LE, the last person, but I have to include all the other witnesses who say they saw him after the time LE gave us). It's a stressful time. Maybe it's Desiree's way of 'ugly coping' to discuss all the odd things that Terri did in the first days.
What I find interesting is that it seems Desiree is bent on making it all about Terri. Terri has remained silent since being systematically isolated from those people who suggest she wasn't a part of their grief process. Seems to me that having someone feel so antagonistic about her for thinking about her hair would make anyone crawl into themselves and just STFU for the duration, because everything she says is going to be picked over to get to just this place anyway.