I will say, in my opinion, I feel his wife is connected (somehow by either giving the phone number to him, or speaking of Megan in the past to DJ, I don't know.)
I think of it this way, if your spouse committed the crime DJ did and you KNEW he had a criminal past (as she obviously is aware of his past, look how they met) ...and you had NO knowledge of that crime, why would you be so vile and nasty to the victims family in court as she has??
IMO, if I found out my spouse committed that heinous of a crime, I would be so so sorrowful and do everything I could think of to help the family of the victim, and protect my own children.
But, she hasn't done that.
So, that's just my opinion.
I know almost every murderer has their supporters and family that does love them, but....I would be doing everything I could to disassociate that from the truth of what they did.