BHughes
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people can die of natural causes and remain unnoticed for months, in some cases years.
this happens all over the world, cases have been reported in high density apartment blocks, suburbia, town and cities.
it is a sad reflection on the mentality of many that its not really their business or responsibility to report on missing people, often making assumptions that the person in question is probably away or fine and leaving it at that.
it is easy to say people must have noticed but what people assumed or the information given to them may have been enough to justify the absence.
the old lady who lives across the road from me is rarely seen .. she comes and goes and it may be days or weeks between when i have last seen her and it has been that way since i have lived here... i know she has family and so do not think anything of it if she doesn't appear regularly. she is not particularly sociable and so i guess people give her her space, unless a family member contacted us i would not be overly concerned if i had not seen her in a couple of weeks or so.
That is very understandable in a case where you're an outsider of the family/neighbors. BUT this is a 15 month old baby AND I think we can all agree that MB is A very sociable person and a baby doesn't have a choice of being given "space". These family members/friends have come out and said "when this is over with, you will find MB at the bottom of it all". They know how she is.... So yea, her whereabouts of EB may have worked for a couple weeks, MAYBE, but come on....2MONTHS??? questions start rising like "Wow, how long is EPs leave?? or "I understand EP is on leave and wants to see EB, but how have you not got her back for at least a night bc you miss her and she misses her momma?" And that's just the first lie of where EB was.... If she used CPS as having her, "Ok, so do you have visitation?" or "Who do I contact to see that baby, I miss her and want to see her?"
So this "I've spent nights crying bc I miss my grandbaby" BS should have hit before 2 months.
IMO MOO IMHO