ThoughtFox
Expecting the Unexpected
Well that certainly sounds familiar. And I'll gladly climb back on that soapbox, except this time to say that having listened to the Jammer interview, I know now that there may be a partial explanation. We actually had this partial explanation before, but I didn't recognize it until I listened to the Jammer interview today.
Patterns of behavior.
Gail tells Arlene she'll go to Mike's house, and Arlene arranges for Mike to go over, but when he gets there - Gail's not there - she's gone to Birmingham.
Gail tells Arlene it's okay to come to Birmingham the next morning and meet her there, but late morning, she texts Arlene - Gail's not there - she's headed back to Signal Mountain.
Gail is supposed to see Arlene, probably for Mike's birthday party, but when the time comes - Gail's not there - she's gone back to Signal Mountain.
So when Gail tells Matt she'll meet him back at the Signal Mountain house, and he gets home, and - Gail's not there - what would everyone who knows her think? Oh that's just Gail - she's agreed to be somewhere again - and not there again.
I don't quite see how her interaction with Arlene has anything to do with MP's opinions of her absence. He couldn't know that Gail had cancelled plans with Arlene unless she told him over the phone, and we have no way of knowing if that ever happened.
We're also talking about her behavior on one or two days at a time when her family life is going down the drain and her husband is being unkind and hostile enough for her to call the local police.
We don't know if that was always her pattern or not.
People do act strangely when under duress, but that doesn't mean it is their usual pattern. Everyone's had a day when they just didn't want to see anyone, not to mention driving hundreds of miles just to come home to a hostile situation.
This gets us no closer to knowing where she went or why she left (or if she left of her own free will, or if she ever tried to come back). :waitasec: We still don't even know why she came home that day.
I just don't believe her "pattern" of behavior would lead her husband to assume that things were "normal" if Gail drove away and stayed out of touch, even with the children, for 48 hours over a weekend. It still makes no sense to me.