Re: posts of the opine that cases such as/like Holly Bobo's case do not and would not benefit from on going or continued media coverage..
It is very understandable that there are many who are not comfortable with the very strange/odd silence.. As well as the little info that via the trickle down method of family to TBI and then reported to us is extremely inconsistent and contradicting..
While one may say it's perfectly normal for this silence that is deafening and even go a step further and state that actually there is no reason for, nor good that would even come from continued coverage and searching..
The family however silent they may be..for whatever reason that may be obviously do not agree, nor is it their wish..at least at this particular time of this particular day according to the family appointed spokesperson this is what was the family's wish(quoted below in FXSTS's post)..followed by the family spokeperson's quote is FXSTS's opinions/thoughts about this particular statement that some did feel anger at.. The old.." Have your cake and eat it too " ( I personally don't like that cliche when we are speaking about something so dire in nature as a beautiful 20 yr old GIRL that most realize is most likely already deceased).. But the phrase/cliche's meaning I do understand and find fitting..
[following post is respectfully snipped by me]
{Originally posted by FXSTS}
"Family members hope people won't give up looking for Holly. About a month ago the Decatur County Fairgrounds had 1,500 volunteers or more everyday to help with the search but now it's empty, just a sign asking everyone to pray for Holly Bobo's return.
"People will have a tendency to go on with their regular lives and that's understandable at some point but also we still have a missing child in our community," said Bromley."
IMHO, this statement need not be directed to the public at all. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Somebody out there could have some useful information, but you can't realistically expect help from the public that has been completely shut out with a contradicting timeline and no information as to what might help find this girl. LE has chosen an investigative method that
does not include the public which is their prerogative, so don't whine about "lack of interest".
{end snipped post}
I wholeheartedly understand the questions many have and the frustration.. No matter how it's sliced.. It's all the same.. It is different in multiple ways and with it being different on multiple fronts it concerns many that are praying each and every day that this young girl be found.. Brought home regardless whether to start the long road to heal or more likely to be laid to rest with the dignity and respect she deserves and that her loved ones see fitting..
My personal opinion is that the media attention, Holly's case being kept in the news, kept in the forefront, and the pressure kept steady so that whomever is responsible for what has happened to this young woman understands fully and not for a moment forget that her case, her name , and her plight will remain hot and heavily pressured to bring her home and bring those involved to swift and firm judgement and justice.. I think the perp(s) need not forget that or doubt it for a second and I think that keeping the pressure on.. Keeping it at a boiling point with no hesitation or slowing down.. Keep the train barreling ahead at full force..
All of those IMO COULD BE OF NO HARM and actual would keep the perp uneasy, very unassured, and yes quite likely even to a breaking point..
We are now moving into 2 months since Holly's "disappearance" and we have this far seen the lay low, no pressure of media and the public, and allow the perp(s) to get comfortable and feel as tho no one is onto them.. Therefor thru this method/tactic hoping it will yield the end result of perp(s) so comfortable he will screw up and or actually lead them exactly to Holly.. It isn't happening IMO.. 2 months in and this "different" method/tactic is not proving to produce the desired outcome..
I pray if things are truly are how many of us fear that they are(I.e. Still at square one, basically)that the case is worked from all angles.. One method not working.. You try another method/tactic..
Isn't the very definition of crazy to continue to do the same thing over and over and believing that it will have a different outcome.. Repeating same behavior even though history has proven it results in a particular outcome.. Tho one continues to repeat time and time again.. Each time believing the outcome will yield the desired affect rather than what history has proven it yields.. In this case the desired affect would be to find Holly and bring those involved in her "disappearance" to justice..
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