It makes me made about MJ, does anyone have his FB link still? I didnt save it I want to see what he has said.
I wish they would give an update about how the girls are doing
It makes me angry, too. These children, from what I've read, have been raised by Joann AND Gary, not Joann and Mark. Shameful to do to someone that has stepped in to feed, clothe, shelter and love the girls as a dad should, when the bio one stepped out.
Just thinking out loud. Gary must have taken AM under his wing...knowing how his family was...especially after being married to his sister. I guess what I'm having trouble comprehending is if the relationship the Bains had between AM & TM was that close, then they would also know the dynamics of their relationship. Did TM ever confide to Joann or even the eldest daughter at times? Had the Bains ever taken a trip over to the Mayes house in TN or MS to see the living conditions? It was stated by one of LE that the house in TN (now abandoned) was pretty delapidated, yet the girls were allowed to spend the week-end. IE: Thinking the house may not have had running water...and surely unkept. The Bains obviously felt comfortable letting them babysit ----even for the whole week-end at times. (stated about twice a month). IDK, but my question would be "Why?" They obviously spent time with their bio father too...and his other family.
So many questions I want answered. I'm still on the fence about his interest being for molestation or a true ever, slow growing, wanting, delusion of the girls being his own.
The story needs to be told.
Also, where did GB think AM was the whole day Friday? After all, he was supposed to be helping GB load the truck/trailer for the move? Surely he and LE thought something was amuck when he didn't return? Did he try and contact him...or TM?
:sigh:
I don't know Gary but from the beginning I've felt like he was giving AM a break, probably because he knew the background of the family AM came from, or he thought he could fill a void that AM needed. I cannot and will not fault him for that. Yes, I wish he and JB would have seen this from the beginning and not allowed AM around the kids, let alone themselves, but it is what it is.
My brother was like this to a young man that he felt needed something that maybe he and his family could provide, mentally. I couldn't stand that kid he was letting his children around and he and I would go around, and around and around about it. His wife agreed with me but backed my brother. He didn't murder people, or kidnap anyone that we know of but he is running from the law right now and off to another state. I say good riddance but my brother worries about him as if he's his own kid.
some parts of this really don't sit right with me and leaves me with a few questions I'd like to put forward:
1. If Joann and the oldest daughter were killed in the garage, they must've been in the house beforehand. How were they taken out? Surely GB and JB would've been in bed together and he would've woken up?
2. If this is true and they were forced out, would there not have been a struggle/? So surely evidence of that struggle would have remained in the house when GB woke up.
3. Why was GB so quiet throughout all of this? His wife and 3 daughters were missing and yet hardly a peep from him?
Maybe JB got up for some reason. Perhaps she heard a noise and found her oldest daughter missing, the front door open and thought she was outside and just going to check on her. I am one that wouldn't wake my husband up if I thought she was just outside. I would wait until I knew something was wrong. I may change my thinking on that now.
I get up all time in the night and my husband never misses me. He snores loudly and truthfully someone would have to really make a commotion to wake him up. Maybe GB is the same way?
We don't know the sleeping arrangements that night. We don't know if AM maybe gave GB something, without GB knowing, to help keep him out. We don't know if GB takes something to help him sleep well at night. We don't know if they were having a few drinks that night and AM didn't drink as much as GB, because he had a plan. We don't know that the venting that some of us saw on JB's FB was venting against AM, which I believe it was, or if it was venting about school, or something else. We just don't know so much.
What we do know is that JB along with GB's help though out the years is what got these children to the ages they were/are, not MJ and I really wish he'd step back and know his place. He gave his two children up for adoption and it isn't fair or right to anyone that there is a spotlight on this family now and he decides he wants his daughter back now. Life shouldn't work that way. It shouldn't be all about MJ all the time and not trying to bash him but he should have thought what he was giving up before he gave it away and leave the daughter with her dad.
MOO