belimom
Speak the truth even if your voice shakes~M.Kuhn
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I have given these SO's so much rope to prove themselves not guilty and
for me to be wrong but that happens few and far between.
These women need to stop thinking they are the lucky ones, 'because
he would never hurt' me. Now a days that's just dreaming. You need
to stay alert when seeking a divorce. You've lived with him.
What is his personality like?
Why were papers served after she left town?
Was he an angry man? jealous of her, did he think it would
ruiin him financially? And to stay in the same home I believe is very
risky. You have no way of knowing what his reaction to anything
might be at this point. And then there are the children. Is he upset
they won't be living with him all the time?
I believe that is why you should go to a shelter and then serve the
divorce papers. It may sound drastic to some but at least you and
your children will be safe. This just seems the road all these victims
take. I can't even remember all of them. Susan Powell comes to mind.
And Stacie Peterson. Gail P. It can't be some random men out there
making women who just sought a divorce dissappear. To me these
cases are very telling.
These threads go rather quickly and I try to keep up. That said,
I don't know if this has been mentioned or not. JMO
bbm
Thank you. That needs repeating. When my mother filed for divorce, she and I drove to another town and stayed in a hotel for two nights while my dad was served, then went back, packed her suitcase, and she went back home with me (600 miles away).
I had a friend who played hooky from work one day at a neighbor's house. When her husband left, she and the neighbor went back, packed up her things, and left. She then had him served with papers.
You can never be too careful. I just wish more women realized that.