I imagine you might be right about that. I think if you do that kind of work and day in, day out for 30+ years 99% of what you hear is a male abusing a female, it would have to skew your feelings towards males in general.
Our walk-in center served all genders. Although we were considered by our funders to be rural, the violence in our community exceeded the urban groups on a per capita basis. Part of this had historical foundation stemming from the government's 1954 decision to declare the Klamath Tribes sovereignty null and confiscate the reservation (very involved story). But another part had to do with I will call "the westerners" way of life (don't go crazy on me, it's my opinion based on my definition).
Anyway, as it turned out we saw 85% heterosexual females, 8% heterosexual males, and 7% same sex partners. Neither I, nor any of my staff, hated men. I, myself, had 2 sons, and the most of us were married. Several of my best Board of Directors and volunteers were men. One of the most outstanding volunteers (who was awarded recognition by the United Way) was a male probation officer.
So, if I get my feelings hurt by some of what I'm reading (and probably will be reading), and I say something you feel is a reaction to that emotion, please let me know.
I put myself on an extended sabbatical several years ago not because I was burned out by the clients, but because I was burned out by what I saw happening to victims' rights when large grants started controlling the services being offered. And I must admit that I felt a good deal of culpability (another long story for some other time).
I hope justice for Travis and his survivors will stay foremost in everyone's heart.