I think there is no doubt that JA and TA had an unhealthy relationship ... even tumultuous at times. But there is absolutely NO evidence that he physically abused/threatened her. None of this testimony matters.
RIGHT! (Oh, heck I feel another Juanism coming on... stop me people, please)
BUT - it's likely that a majority of us (say.... most of us) have, or have had an unhealthy relationship at some point in our lives.
Okay - anyone who has been in an unhealthy dating situation (aka) relationship - (aka) 'official' or...
Just raise your virtual hand, guys - if you're over 20 and have ever interacted human beings that you 'thought' you were attracted to or felt love for or were physically or emotionally aroused by.... (ssnnnnorre) then...
.... welcome to the human race!
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Goofy stuff happens (preferably in our 20's - that's what 20's are for, no?)
I feel better now... and oddly nostalgic... okay, that didn't last long!
In my view, (and I'm not sure ALV is doing this because I had to spend a penny earlier), incorporating pre-23 (per brain development) within the scope of so called adult interactions is... dumb vis a vis - ugh - common sense.
Equally, it is ridiculous to consider the adult behaviour of an individual while discounting the absence of his/her history that could indicate psychopathy - or indicate the absence of abnormality - especially if such abnormality is indicated by a single individual who has demonstrated clear evasive, dishonest self-serving anecdotal premises... and such premises have not and cannot be corroborated.
In other words, wth? We aren't stupid (said the jury)...