I disagree. Borderlines are very capable of making extensive plans to damage others. Very capable.http://kristinarandle.com/blog/diagnosing-jodi-arias-part-three-of-three/#gsc.tab=0
If you haven't, read the 3 part article. I think she hits the nail right on the head.
(I am answering the guy from a country without the DP who doesn't see why only the Death Penalty will avenge Travis Alexander's murder)
I had a son who was a violent sociopath from birth. He was also a criminal and served time in jail. When out of jail, he lived a pitiful life working for minimum wage and using his tremendous IQ to cook up fraud schemes, work up ways to justify beating people up, selling drugs/cheating people, etc.
He loved being in prison. He was a loser on the streets and kept lowering his peer group in order to feel superior until he was literally hanging with people who lived under the bridge. But he was really somebody in jail. He had the opportunity to buff up his body until it shone rippling with muscles. He quickly developed a following, acquired tattoos and was dispensing street smarts to younger criminals. Still with the dazzling model good looks.
He told me that having people afraid of you was "worth it" because you got respect. Being violent on the streets got you in trouble, but in jail it got you respect. And he just preened with that. He got his own private cell because everybody was afraid to be his cellie (sp?).
I lived in fear he would kill someone "for fun" and sure enough he was making plans. Why? Because it would give him the respect he craved. Why not commit a minor crime and go back to prison where he was respected? Because a minor crime doesn't get the respect. It starts you at the bottom and you have to claw your way up (by being violent). He figured if he hurt someone on the outside, they would respect him, he would see that in their eyes PLUS he would get more respect and have a higher pecking order in the gang when he got to prison (because of a more serious rap).
I am a non-violent person myself; however, I don't consider life in prison with an "opportunity to do good in the world" from jail is punishment. It shows that you do not know the criminal mind.
Take Jodi Arias for example. She is scorned in society, branded and will never have a decent boyfriend. Just look at her current admirer. SHe is a pariah no matter what the verdict. But in jail--why I saw it on the faces of the eager prisoners that Nancy Grace walked by.
"I know her, I sat by her at lunch once!" screamed one wretch.
"Will, Ay hayve talk-ed to her my SELF," said another and got an interview with the eye of the camera right in front of her wondering nose.
She is a celebrity in jail, smiling and waving at the crowd as she goes to and from her cell. They are all wishing her well, giving her an extra cookie, cowtowing to her, worshipping her. "Can I do your hair Miss Jody?"
This attention *advertiser censored* will be loving every minute of it as she writes her future best seller "The Law of Attraction vs. The Law in Arizona" - the legal cagefight of the year and how I won.
It has to be the Death Penalty, my foreign friend. Even if she sits on Death Row for twenty years at least she will be having PUNISHMENT for the heinous and deliberate act of torturing and carving up a human being to please her offended pride.
Scratches from her feral cat???
Oh,,,wait............
I don't remember Deanna giving any interviews, does anyone? If not, couldn't she come in as rebuttal witness. It seems as if TA was in constant contact with her throughout his JA relationship. I believe if memory serves she may have testified at a hearing. Will go back to look at the minutes.
I'm bumping my own post (how absolutely gauche of me LoL). Seriously, I see a lot of discussion on this forum about past spousal/significant other abuse and those that have had the horror of living with a psychopath, but nobody seems to have any experience in dealing with a child who is suffering from the very disorders that JA's parents have dealt with? I'm wondering if it's a taboo subject, or if nobody here has had that experience. I've commented a couple of times on it, because I can relate to it somewhat.
I don't get why the parents are given such a bad rap when it comes to dealing with a child with a personality disorder, but when it's a partner there's all kinds of empathy and support. Dealing with a child like that is NOT EASY. I don't agree with the things that JA's mother has done, or that Cindy Anthony has done, but I can understand their instinct to bury the truth. Guilt is obviously a factor. There is a gut reaction to point the finger of blame at the parents when a child is "defective".
My child is neither a psychopath nor a sociopath, but he has lied and hurt and caused us a lot of grief with his anger. The mental health system has very limited resources available to those who can't afford it. So we have dealt with it the best we can, and we have good days and we have bad days. But I hold my head high because we've done our best, and we continue to fight to get our child the best care that we can.
I pray to God I never have to deal with anything remotely like what those two mothers have had to deal with.
IIRC, no.BTW
Did jodi ever return the gas cans to darryl?
I agree. It has to be the death penalty. Her life is not worth the lives of others. Her life is worth less than animals who deserve our care. She is a killing machine, whether it is the murder of the body, or of the soul. There are no redeeming features. She looks human but she is not.
I have my own theory. I feel pretty sure Jodi killed that dog. He was never seen again.
Thanks! I have been wading thru the last 4 threads and making notes on the back of my class notes, lol!
Wait. So then what is the prob with #5 giving JA signals and signs? I just read she was doing that. I am soooooo confused. Why would the DT object to a JA-friendly juror?
So ALV knows and understands JA better than her parents might? Nope, I don't buy that.
If they were willing to get up there for their daughter, they would have testified. They might be willing to plea for her life but it's blatantly obvious they would not partake of the circus...
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Oh. But I was just rudely told that I was wrong in assuming the juror was perhaps pro-JA.
Hmmmmm.
Who needs to do their homework?