Well over half of men of the families ALV works with - up to 2/3 men batter intimate partner in family but not outside of the family unit - carry on a different life . . . have people not know you are abusive in your inttimate relationship.
it is another level to add spiritual dimension to that . . . people of faith - believe who they are . . part of sense of self - go against moral core - . . . one thing not know you are abusive but another thing to not know you live a life that is anti-sthetical ? to what you believe in.
TA had a significant amount to lose, standing with his profesion - he has so many people . .
his 2 closest friends - one heads his PPL division - where he earns his money - he is well thought of there -he is a motivational speaker -
he would lose his priesthood standing. . . I do these things because I adhere to these tenants when in fact you are not adhering to these tenants @ all.
privat things come out . . .in cases of DV fear leads to anger and rage - to people you feel safest targets . . . people who will not tell. - -JA was the safest target.
JA know about his secret life/
yes
compare about questions with JA truthfulness - lies she told began happening after ta was killed. . . lie about killing, lie about whether she was even there, then another lie about 2 intruders who killed TA . . given all lies she told after 6/4/08 do not cause ALV problems in believeablity
no they don't - if JA was a really good liar she would have planned a really good lie and she didnt'
early noon recess - return @ 1:15
JA calling her Atty over . . .