Backwoods
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Did the mods ever approve a private forum? I need an outlet. Holy hell.
Kiddo's been sick so I missed about 8 pages. :/
No word on one yet.
Hope little one is better!
Did the mods ever approve a private forum? I need an outlet. Holy hell.
Kiddo's been sick so I missed about 8 pages. :/
Here's what I wonder.... I wonder if the ads were TH way of looking for a victim... given the dates of them. Maybe he got it in his mind that he was going to do it and started looking. Then on July 1 an unexpected opportunity showed up that he could not pass up. Because after the fact he was FURIOUSLY looking for a connection with someone and I wonder if actually following through with the act on July 1 really made him want more victims. There is something very desperate about his ads........and I do not know if they are all sexually driven. Mooo obviously. I was just struck mostly by the dates of them and how there so many in so short a time after July 1 and how he may have thought he would see how many victims he could get prior to being caught? IDK , just rambling.
Here's what I wonder.... I wonder if the ads were TH way of looking for a victim... given the dates of them. Maybe he got it in his mind that he was going to do it and started looking. Then on July 1 an unexpected opportunity showed up that he could not pass up. Because after the fact he was FURIOUSLY looking for a connection with someone and I wonder if actually following through with the act on July 1 really made him want more victims. There is something very desperate about his ads........and I do not know if they are all sexually driven. Mooo obviously. I was just struck mostly by the dates of them and how there so many in so short a time after July 1 and how he may have thought he would see how many victims he could get prior to being caught? IDK , just rambling.
Ugh.....I really don't want to beat up on Ing again - he'd just regained my trust!
But, is this another "Ing'ism"? Or, was he only formally charged w/in last day or two and no MSM source has reported/clarified this?
Here's what I wonder.... I wonder if the ads were TH way of looking for a victim... given the dates of them. Maybe he got it in his mind that he was going to do it and started looking. Then on July 1 an unexpected opportunity showed up that he could not pass up. Because after the fact he was FURIOUSLY looking for a connection with someone and I wonder if actually following through with the act on July 1 really made him want more victims. There is something very desperate about his ads........and I do not know if they are all sexually driven. Mooo obviously. I was just struck mostly by the dates of them and how there so many in so short a time after July 1 and how he may have thought he would see how many victims he could get prior to being caught? IDK , just rambling.
Not confining such a tendency to only ADHD, yeah, seems kind of like he might, huh?
Not confronting you, but posts like this in general. I have sat on my hands more than once while reading posts that connect ADHD to rape and murder.
No! ADHD is no more likely to make a person a rapist/murderer than is diabetes.
Again, not picking on you, but your post was just the straw that broke this camel's back. I read posts associating ADHD with psychopathy or sociopathy and violent and deadly intent ALL of the time.
Even if this monster had ADHD, it is irrelevant to his killing and rape of an innocent child. My heart breaks for children like my own, who have ADHD and are unfairly and erroneously labeled as "dangerous" when they are beautiful, non-violent, usually very bright children who simply have a learning difference.
I just wanted to educate, not attack. There seems to be this culture of assuming Aspergers and ADHD kids are somehow more inclined to violence and ultimately, murder. That just isn't true. :twocents:
Not taking as confrontation, nor is mine here to you -- but to clarify: My post was in reply to someone's else, who referenced "the ADHD tendency to blurt stuff out", saying Tyler had it.
I only said yes, it seemed he might have such a tendency, AND I actually delimited that tendency, saying I didn't see it as associated only with ADHD.
Not a word about rape or murder, etc.
No, I gotcha. That is why i said my post was not intended to isolate your particular post.
I just have serious jaw dropping moments when I read posts that associate ADHD with sociopathy and/or murder/rape.
So since your reply was the latest I have seen addressing the association of ADHD and deviant behavior, even if you were refuting such an association, I addressed it while referencing your post. Hence my disclaimer. :seeya:
There are definitely pedophiles that exclusively have sexual attraction to children. Bessie posted a really great link about that. It's really interesting, did you take a look? I don't remember what page it was on...sorry. So worth a read, though.
Herding cats looks easier. :snooty:
Not confronting you, but posts like this in general. I have sat on my hands more than once while reading posts that connect ADHD to rape and murder.
No! ADHD is no more likely to make a person a rapist/murderer than is diabetes.
Again, not picking on you, but your post was just the straw that broke this camel's back. I read posts associating ADHD with psychopathy or sociopathy and violent and deadly intent ALL of the time.
Even if this monster had ADHD, it is irrelevant to his killing and rape of an innocent child. My heart breaks for children like my own, who have ADHD and are unfairly and erroneously labeled as "dangerous" when they are beautiful, non-violent, usually very bright children who simply have a learning difference.
I just wanted to educate, not attack. There seems to be this culture of assuming Aspergers and ADHD kids are somehow more inclined to violence and ultimately, murder. That just isn't true. :twocents:
Herding cats looks easier. :snooty: