I hope the kids are getting plenty of time with Jeff and therapists. I suspect those two kiddos have seen the real Steve on more than one occasion. I am concerned that some of the key players including the sheriff don't have a decent understanding of DV. And that perhaps some of the key players helping the children work through this may be influenced by their own family's DV record.
-IMO: Your concern is spot-on regarding the lack of understanding on DV from the Sheriff and some of the key players.
It appears some are voicing this concern in hopes of it changing (their various post for Domestic Violence Awareness). One, in the form of a Petition.
*JW did not select the officiating minister* An unbalanced tone admonishing forgiveness caused added discomfort for some suffering victims.