I just spent 2 hours catching up and I have to say, my stomach is a mess.
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Those 911 calls might not specifically locate Hailey, but they do serve a big purpose. They shed light on the whole situation. While I think some things are irrelevant (ie; What BD eats for breakfast, or what style jeans she's wearing or not wearing) ... the background to any case is important in establishing HISTORY, MOTIVES, and POSSIBLE LOCATIONS but MORE SO (to me) it's important to us that are advocates for children (outside of WS). Without history we aren't able to establish patterns and without patterns we cannot recognize things in order to prevent things from happening in the future.
The 911 calls are so "typical" IMO / IME of domestic violence situations. Pretty much fits the "pattern" to a tee. And that tells me that there is a history of domestic violence in this house - this wasn't the first time these two went rounds.
I put VERY LITTLE weight in what is said during those calls, sadly. The situations surrounding them are usually extremely heated (and we all know things are said / done in heated situations that aren't complete truth). I do not know how many times I've heard a person report a claim of a death threat or suicide threat when in reality what was really said was "different".
Ie; "You are p***sing me off so bad I just want to slam my head into the wall"
Can easily turn into "He threatened to slam my head into a wall !!!"
Or "I give up. I do NOT WANT to live like this anymore !"
Can easily turn into "That psycho is threatening to kill herself again."
It's not to say that this WAS the case with SA / BD but it easily could have been. Another reason I think LE is often frustrated with domestic violence cases... once all parties calm down it's often "Welllll ... she didn't REALLY say she was going to kill herself, but she implied it !!! "