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Right?!
okay, so I don’t think it’s been explained but for sake of argument: he thought she was next door. (And therefore thought she and baby were safe.) Was he not at all concerned about his son’s whereabouts? (This is assuming the son was typically at school all day.) or did he assume son walked home alone, got a ride, she got a ride, or she walked to get him with a newborn in tow?
It just seems so flippant. Casual. Detached. “absolutely nothing weird amiss”
MOO: it seems like there was greater concern over $25 than the whereabouts of wife, baby and the young son.
...and I suppose different strokes - this may be the way they roll. And marking my spot to follow.
Baby's Daddy. Shane Carey.Who is BD? Sorry, I’m trying to get caught up!
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Watch and listen to all of the interviews/statements. Here are a few examples:
6AM- wakes up and snoozes alarm (Fox interview)
6:15- wakes up and starts morning routine (Fox and ABC)
6:30- wakes up children and HB (ABC and Fox)
6:40- wakes up children and HB (stated first in Fox interview) states they had a late start
6:40- leaves for work - last time sees HB
7:30-7:45- HB calls- discuss $25 dollars she spent on 3 books- last time made contact (ABC)
8AM- HB calls- they talk about book fair (CBS, ABC)
8:15-8:30- H calls sometime after 8 after book fair- probably around 8:15 (Fox)
1PM- leaves work
1:40- arrives home and calls HB. Her phone is off.
2PM- comes home, HB and baby are missing but everything else is inside house (CBS)
2PM-comes home, HB and baby are gone, car door is unlocked, everything is home but HB and baby, her keys and phone- those are gone (ABC)
*This changes even more as regards where her purse was (home/car/home).
Sometime after 2- School calls for son to be picked up- when she isn’t home after he returns, he calls police (ABC)
Sometime after 2- Picks son up from daycare and heats up his lunch. Then calls his dad, her friends, then the police (Fox)
7:15-7:30- called police (Fox)
7:30- Police arrive.
It seems like both times he was talking about the day it happened, once he got to the $25 part, he basically doesn’t continue describing things. That is when he seems the most stressed. Moo
I noticed that too. Wedding dresses, Wedding décor, Bridesmaid dresses... Makes me sad. MOO
Yes but he was home and she didn’t have her car. So by 6, when she wasn’t there rushing in saying, “Oh my gosh! Sorry I was at the neighbor’s for over four hours with no diapers, wipes or bottles, I’m late to pick up S. Can you take the baby while I get him?”, why in the absolute hell is HE not the one calling the school to see if she has been there. He knows what time his kid comes home. He knows his partner doesn’t have her car. He claims he thought she was at a neighbor’s. Yet obviously did not walk over there to check.
I wish at least one of the reporters had asked what he was doing between 1:40 and 6:00.
Good post. A mom is in charge of input and output foremost. Diapers... definitely. Are we assuming the baby is bottle fed. Dad says something about the baby needing fed.I don't think we yet have verification that the apartment door was left wide open. I think that was in msm but they were reporting what a friend of the family had said, and they probably only got a garbled and panicked version of checking the house and the car, and the door was open, and she's missing and I can't find her, and her purse is here, and I called police, and my kid's crying, and...
So they've interpreted it as the apartment door being wide open, but the only time I think he's mentioned it in a media interview he says the car door was unlocked, and that he didn't discover that until he went to the car to go to the school to pick up their son.
I'm more interested in whether Heidi's belongings were all in one place, and whether that was the apartment or the car, or if maybe some were in the apartment and some were still in the car?
Maybe with the baby, in or out of a carseat, she had to make two trips and some items were taken back to the apartment but some were still in the car?
Where would she go with the baby and her phone but nothing else? The laundry is a good suggestion. Maybe the mailbox (he said her keys are also missing and that the mailbox key is on the set of keys). I would have thought if she'd popped to the store that she'd take her purse. I would have thought if she was going for coffee at a friend's that she'd take the phone and a baby bag for if the baby needed cleaning up or changing? I don't really know what new moms take around with them.
I used to be able to tell but they have changed Pinterest so much I don't know anymore. I thought someone in KB's thread figured it out and I wish I could remember who that was. Hopefully, they're reading here! MOOI really "like" this!
Do the posts indicate "when" those posts were made? Recently, or a couple years ago?
Not sure where I read it but something I read said she was breastfeeding which if true makes it even more odd of a statement. JMOGood post. A mom is in charge of input and output foremost. Diapers... definitely. Are we assuming the baby is bottle fed. Dad says something about the baby needing fed.
Okay. He works for a moving company so he's probably tired when he gets home. Maybe crashes, maybe smokes a joint or drinks a beer and then crashes. Oh, but he did say he grilled his son's lunch so we know that much. Maybe they watched TV together.
About Heidi's car being there when he returned home from work :
This means if she left, let's say, to a friend's --- she was walking. With a baby.
So why not take the diaper bag and phone ?
Even if she was in the same apt. building ?
So did he go around the place knocking on doors of friends ?
Did they have many friends that lived close enough ?
And if she went off in a car with a friend, she still would've taken the diaper bag and her purse/phone.
Just curious why he didn't get worried sooner.
Maybe he took a nap and thought she really was out with a friend.
If he thought she was out, he might not have looked for her purse , phone , or the diaper bag-- he would assume she had those with her.
I would have called around to other friends of hers and started to get worried .
Or at least a little annoyed at first-- as in --"What ? You left to go shopping and didn't remember your phone and baby's diaper bag ? What were you thinking?"
But Heidi strikes me as a caring mom and maybe that's why SC thinks she was taken ?
Maybe a man thinks differently and is less paranoid than some women.
I wonder the same. She’s noticeably staying mum, which is good for LE, imo.I’d like to hear from the friend who SC thought Heidi was visiting. Do they visit often? Does she know SC or have insight into their family life?
Yep. Even this list doesn't include all of the details (e.g. water)!RSBM- oh yes, and don't forget that she got up and made lunch .. I guess that must have been at 6:40.
6:30- wakes up children and HB (ABC and Fox)
6:40- wakes up children and HB (stated first in Fox interview) states they had a late start
6:40- leaves for work - last time sees HB
I used to be able to tell but they have changed Pinterest so much, I don't know anymore. I thought someone in KB's thread figured it out and I wish I could remember who that was. Hopefully, they're reading here! MOO
One has five syllables. The other phrase has seven. I heard seven.